Relationship I Finally Think We Are Really Turning A Corner!!!

[Becksknox]

First let me say that I couldn't have done this without all of you wonderful guys here and the advice and support you've given me!!!!

So, Thursday and Friday, he has said "I love you". Then yesterday evening he went to my neighborhood pool party and met all my friends here and wasn't stressed at all. As we were leaving to go out to dinner, I was at the opposite of the exit saying goodbye to my friends and he was at the exit with another of my friends and she said "I just love her", his response was "what's not to love" !!!!!!!!

We went to breakfast the shopping then lunch together today. He doesn't care for fireworks so wants to not go anywhere tonight (understandably). And may just want to be alone so I don't see him upset because he's not ready to be that vulnerable with me. However, we've come a long way in the last week and a half and I will cherish it.

He also told me a few nights ago that he talked to a mutual friend ours at his pool and was telling her how good I am to him and he's never had anyone care about him the way I do. He ended it there and I asked what she said but he didn't want to say. But like I said this is a mutual friend that we where around a lot last summer so I know he trusts her opinion and I know she would've been supportive of him and us.

I hope this smile can stay on my face for awhile. Thank you again for everything to all of you have helped me and given it to me from your hearts!!!!

 

[Changing4Best]

I'm so happy for you, this sounds very encouraging.

 

[mrsps]

Awesome to hear you have a big smile on your face :)

 

[Becksknox]

THANK YOU both.

 

[Peach]

So happy for you! I hope it's mostly smooth sailing from here on out for you two.:D Gives me hope for myself and all the other almost or on again-off again couples around here.:rolleyes::happy:

 

[Becksknox]

Thank you @Peach. It has for sure been a long hard road this time around, in 2 years only the 2nd time he's done this but the first was way easier than this and we lived a 1000 miles though on this day we were together here in Texas. I'm letting him come around but taking care of me and doing for myself. I've lived here just over a month and I think for him to see my great new circle of friends yesterday affirmed to him that I am ok with or without him. Last year it was me moving on for him. This year with my depression and move it took me longer. He knows there's a chance to lose me and I truly don't believe that's what he wants. Even if at first he thought I deserved better and did want it.