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I Fought Back

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Mina

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As many of you know, my PTSD was brought on by a severe dogbite, and I recently got a Doberman about a month ago (different thread on that).

This morning Kia (my dog) and I were out for a walk in our neighborhood. I know the route well, including where there are dogs in fenced yards and where we might encounter loose dogs. She is always on a leash, regardless.

We were in an area where there are usually no dogs when suddenly an adult pit bull mix and a St. Bernard mix puppy ran out from several houses down. We were on the opposite side of the street. The pit mix ran up to us, barking furiously, and began attacking Kia while she was standing almost directly in front of me. Not the doggie, "Hey, who are you, gotta smell you," but just full-on attacking her out of nowhere. She was defending herself, but of course I didn't want her (or me) hurt - especially because she's only just finished recovering from some serious damage inflicted by the two pit bulls she used to live with (we got her a month ago, a rescue).

On another forum, I recently read a thread about defending yourself and your dog against other dogs. So instead of standing there horrified, I decided to fight back with what I'd read. First I kicked the dog, and while that gave us a split-second break, I backed up the hill behind me and grabbed a large piece of branch laying on the ground. I hit the dog with the stick while he was attacking Kia again...not swinging, but jabbing...then held it out to keep him at bay, and kept shouting at him to go and get away.

I saw an open window in the house and started shouting to the owner to get outside, and finally a lady opened the door. First she tried to tell me it wasn't her dog...but apparently the dog belongs to her granddaughter :rolleyes:, and wasn't supposed to be outside. No excuse. I yelled to her what had happened, that their dog had run up and started attacking mine, unproked. She was apologetic, but my husband (cop) will be having a little chat with them later today. That is NOT okay.

Kia and I are uninjured, although I got majorly triggered. We did walk home briskly and then I went to the gym to try and work some of it off. That seemed to help (I have Dylan to thank for that suggestion from another thread!).

The success part of all this is that I took action and fought back. I didn't stand there horrified or freeze or freak out When I got home, I was also able to cry about it very quickly, because it was scary...also progress. My husband is being really supportive and said all the right things, which shows he is learning too - progress for him as well.
 
Great steps forward - good for you. :)

I understand how much of a relief it can be to actually cry, it's like, at least in my experiencing, cleansing and forgiving of self.

I'm glad you're ok, too.
 
That is GREAT Mina! It can be REALLY difficult to fight back even for someone who doesn't have your history, so I would say that is a HUGE accomplishment- well done!

I am glad you are both okay... and again, great job... working as a vet tech for as long as I did, I had to break up a couple dog fights from time to time (usually when we were busy and there were new techs who were training and didn't know proper restraint) and it was even scary for me in those situations.
 
Wow, Mina! This sounds like another huge step for you. I think knowing that you can defend yourself when needed is a huge thing. You can look back on this when fears crop up--and know that you are capable of protecting yourself. I am so impressed!
 
great stuff mina....i cant walk dogs....dog fights scare hell out of me...i got nice little scar on my face from a dogbite.....do you know how many peolpe have spat on there finger and rubbed my scar on my face and said oh you got vegemite on your face....scar blends in with my freckles...lol.....yuk...:eek:
 
Good for you Mina.

I could not have done that myself, i am not scared of dogs just of the noise when they confront each other.

Keep going out though.

Amethist.
 
Congratulations, Mina! I got chill bumps reading your success - wow!

Your success reminded me of the first time I had a "fight back" dream...in my dream my automatic response was to protect myself, and that was a first; the first time in my life I felt like I might try to protect myself rather than freeze.

Thanks very much for sharing this BIG STEP!!! I feel encouraged to be reminded that it CAN and WILL and DOES change. Sometimes my change/growth seems glacier-moving-slow, I feel grateful for the reminder in your success.

-Dylan
 
Wow! That's fantastic! Man, dog owners like that need to suffer the consequences of their actions.
 
Fantastic Mina! I am so proud of you!

:clap::clap::clap:

You really did so well and I take someone doing well as an accomplishment for all of us ... you give us strength to be stronger!

:Hug_emoticon:
Shiraz
 
Hello Mina, Your success story is quite the success. Excellence!

I nearly cried reading your story, and practically felt my heart beating as I read.

So glad both you and your dog is alright now, that you were able to cry and that your husband was deeply supportive.

Good stuff! :thumbs-up


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