I Realize That I

[Deleted member 28403]

I realize that I cannot work continously from morning till 6 pm without pauses, because that leads to me falling asleep while working

 

[Anrish]

I realize that I have to take it slower...

And I realize that...I try too much at once.

 

[Deleted member 19804]

@Anrish I know the feeling. Good on you for realizing this :hug: :hug:

 

[The Albatross]

I realize that I don't let anybody take my voice away or control the dialogue... for whatever that's worth. I got something solid under me now that I didn't have for a great many years.

 

[ms spock]

I realise that I have changed so much that the way I walk is actually different. I am more here. Something stuck inside me for the longest time is starting to shift.

 

[Anrish]

I realize that I like to teach people.

I realize that it's okay to take a short break from time to time.

 

[Lionheart]

I realize that no one can give me the love I missed as a child.

However, I can love myself well, and allow others to love me as an adult so it is okay!!!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I realize that I need to be more of a support to my transgender teenage grandson than I have been. After doing so much research research on transgender teens and children I now have more of a inner compass to in all of the ways I can show him all of my support. He just came out and it is an adjustment from lesbian to male. I have so much catching up to do and watch my speech with him as he is sixteen years old. I am so proud of his bravery for coming out all on his own. I love him dearly and nothing has changed except his choice of gender.

 

[Anrish]

@gizmo: Great thing to realize and he can be so glad to have you as his grandmother. :hug: You're a great grannie! :happy:

I realize that...I need to calm down and trust.

I realize that I'm deadly scared of an intimate relationship after reading about another member doing this huge step.

 

[Recovery4Me]

I realize that I will most likely need to develop additional self regulation techniques as I add more things to my plate. So increased stress can be viewed by myself from time to time as 'trying' to main stream in my surroundings.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Thank you for being so kind @Anrish I am so ashamed of not researching this topic earlier and could have spared my grandson much pain. Lights are going on all over my head at this time.:hug::hug::hug:

 

[Anrish]

@gizmo: He can be happy to have you as his grandmother, he really can. ...I just thought about telling my grandmother that I'm bisexual and that I'm scared of men and already had relationships with men and woman...she would ignore it or berate me. She doesn't accept me as I'm now...and she would even less if she knew about my sexual orientation. ...that is why I'm glad for your grandson. :happy: