Like I said in my original post to the OP, being a non parent shouldn’t exclude you for having an opinion on something.
Sure. Like people with PTSD are just cowards, crazy, & histrionic drama queens. It’s in the past. Get over it, already. Or? You’re just a Faker. Liar. Malingerer. Leech. Abuser. Hurting everyone around you. By your lies. And your weakness.
Oh. Wait? Is PTSD a real thing? If I don’t have PTSD, should I not have an opinion on what a bunch of f*cking LIARS can slime their way onto sympathy, and public funds, as the lazy pieces of shit they are?
Or does that smart?
Because that’s not you?
Even if it’s a generally held opinion, by people… without PTSD?
Parents? REAL parents? Give a f*ck. For real.
And noooothing limits your circle of friends faster than becoming a parent. Because all of a sudden? Not only does WHO the person is, matter, but HOW they parent their own kids. Parents? As a rule, do not get on with other parents. UNLESS they share the same ethos. Non-parents? Have as much weight as people who think people with PTSD are just full of shit f*cking liars and cowards.
Was I brash? Certainly.
Triggered? Nope.
People “hear” mama-bear and think teddy-bear. Think Smokey. Think exaggeration.
f*ck with someone’s kids? Unleash hell.
In this ÜBER restrained first-world paradigm? They just cut you out of their life, instead of gut you, and wear your entrails as a hat. But? That’s still the instinct. Because most people? Aren’t abusive pieces of shit, who deserve to die screaming. They’re parents. Real parents. Mediocre or amazing, their first instinct is still to kill anyone -quickly or slowly- who even hints at threatening their child, and dance on their ashes.
That’s kind of disheartening that others will rather lose a friend because of something that could be constructive criticism.
Raping children is GREAT!
Would you not distance yourself from someone who held that opinion? I would. But, just because they’re not a parent, they have the RIGHT to that opinion, and it should be held as equal, and constructive, and valuable? Or, if they are a parent, I should acquiesces to their better understanding and send my kids out to be raped, too?
People DO hold these opinions.
Both parents, and nonparents
And they can all die screaming, by my OWN opinion.
We have no way of knowing how the OP would react to certain things.
True.
I am very much assuming they are a caring and reasonable individual who wants the best for the people she cares for. Maybe she’s a lying piece of shit who should kill themselves, and wouldn’t give a f*ck about their kids, like even the most pathetic of parents do. I honestly don’t know, but would still prefer to assume one, than the other.
IF they would care? Even a molecule, much less with her whole heart and soul? Yah. People coming at her like she’s a bad parent, when that’s what she’s given her ALL to? Isn’t like an “I would lose my job” kind of serious. But something 1,000, 1,000,000 times worse.
Unless she really IS an abusive piece of shit. Which is what someone triggered by child abuse will paint her as.
Maybe she should die screaming.
Doesn’t sound like it. Sounds like her so called friend? f*cked. The. Hell. Up. Got triggered, and treated her like an abuser. And needs to BEG, on her knees, for forgiveness. That she wasn’t seeing her friend, but her own parents. And her own life. Not these children. With a mother who is over the moon at her child’s distress over having hurting his sibling. Because we don’t hurt the people we love, full stop, HAS to be taught. It is not innate. And either someone is teaching you that lesson, on purpose, or it’s on accident, as the people around you are hurt. That their friend was teaching it, on purpose, means they give a f*ck. About their kids. About who will be in their lives. It means they are a GOOD parents. Not the piece of shit abuser, their so called friend has treated them like, because their kid. was. Unhappy. They. Hurt. Someone. Due? To their so called friend’s parenting.