Indecision - Does It Cause You Anxiety?

[Jestadud]

I've noticed that store detectives seem to appear in my area, but have always thought that it was because of my constant scanning of my surroundings and those around me that make me seem a bit dodgy.
Incidently I wonder how many of those store detectives other members have seen are in plain clothes yet we automatically assume that everyone knows who the store detectives are.

 

[anni]

Hahahaha! Yes Jestadude,

That would go back to the thread where someone was asking if our 'radar' seemed to be out-of-ordinarily astute. I can FEEL those detectives watching me, and not in any New-Agey, freakish sense. The hairs on the back of my neck stand up, I instantly feel criminally guilty and tend to pick up 16 different flavours of whatever-it-was I couldn't decide about and go pay for them before fleeing the store. Seriously? Sometimes, like a dam idiot, I'll actually spend more money than I originally wanted to so 'they' will see what a good, upstanding, non-shoplifting citizen I am. GOD this thing makes me insane.

Take care,

Anni

 

[Grama-Herc]

Of course, we need to throw in a little anxiety into this mix. Stir gently and Ta Da you have just created one of "us"

 

[Definitely..maybe]

For me, it's tough decision after tough decision. I'm ready for my life to just get straight and less difficult.

So I can relate, and feel your frustration. I hope things even out a little for you!