The so called “father figures “ in my life have sucked azz! My biological father was a prick, my stepfather was basically absent, and don’t get me started on some supposedly loving heavenly father who’s supposed to be willing his way about the clouds….if i was to worship any beings who were basically anthropomorphic ideations, it would be the woman. I’m a man(unfortunately) and we suck. Be kind to yourself and others, kiddos.