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Naw @Airedale 48 not in the country or Downeast. Southern beach. Close enough to get to Boston easily. I also went back to college at 45. It was really good for my brain. My PTSD had gotten out of control and college really helped keep me grounded.
 
Hey Dan, welcome from another vet. USMC. Airwing.

Working with animals is one of those amazing things. They listen better than most people. It's, easy is the wrong word, right to stay centered with them. <grin> And (dogs & horses, anyway) don't take stuff personal. Bad days they help you through, good days boy are they ecstatic. I've had times in my life where I'm so disconnected I can't be near animals or people alike. At least in my experience, once I can connect with 4foots, 2 feet aren't quite so impossible. Most still can't see with their eyes, or hear with their ears, but most people are pretty decent or try to be. Snort. Apparently I'm all optimistic today. It simply takes a lot of energy to deal with them. Some days I'm more energetic than others. And simple things never are. ;)
 
For what it's worth I have jumped out of a car to confront a reckless driver speeding through my neighborhood in much the same fashion that you did. My husband who was in the kitchen, heard the guy's horn, and ran for the front door of our home. He thought I was going to get hurt or maybe shot.

I went off on the guy, letting traffic stop and back up... shaking and screaming at him that the speed limit is 25 miles an hour and we have elderly and a deaf child. "See the signs???" I screamed at him though I was keeping myself about 3 feet from his car window. "You are not exempt! There is a reason for those signs and this is MY street! I have lived on this street for 20 years and I'm tired of assholes like you..." :unsure: Somehow he just sat there blinking. No cops were called, I jumped in the car and went on my way. My husband though was really frightened.

USAF here. Belated welcome.
 
Welcome, Dan. You are among friends here, I hope you find peace.

I used to train dogs for show, many years ago, and owned a pug. God gave him a peanut for a brain, but what he didn't have in smarts, he made up for with love and personality. His show name - Marty Feldman :)
 
My brother has his second Airedale... Taz. I got to have his first one, Bismarck for a year when he was stationed in Alaska. He was like having 3 dogs but I loved him. I used to groom him myself with a calendar I bought of all the different cuts (all Airedales) and would drive my brother crazy by sending him pictures of us modeling all his "new and improved" looks. I really loved him, he was a really smart dog.

Yeah, if you can train the dogs, and is there a webpage for their breed so you can post something for people to reply to?
 
Hi Friday,
I used to love training.I especially loved working with dogs that need to learn not to eat people. Working any dog though one must be centered and in the moment. Two with an aggressive dog it's especially important to be able to read him. Sometimes there comes a time where you need to have a bit of a CTJM ( Come to Jesus Meeting) generally though. the hope is that he begins to understand who he is as he learns to be obedient. Interesting ever the baddest of the bad guys will generally fall in love with the first person who is willing to be coherant. consistant and willing to give praise and correction. I suspect it's at least a little like raising a child.
I loved the connection. I also loved working with dogs that people said could not be made safe. I'm in MD, were dogs shipped down from NY and North from the Carolinas. That gave me a great sense of pride. Even better when the person would pay me to compete with their dg in obedience. A funny story, I am not particularly fond of Pointers. I'm a terrier kind of guy. A terrier can be blood and gut, intelligent as all get out and always looking for an "angle" so to speak. An English Pointer finds his wonder in the field. finding and retrieving birds. Anything outside of that is just not easy. So a good terrier you may want to repeat a skill maybe 4 or 5 times before he gets bored. Anymore that that and He'll be looking for an angle to screw it up so to speak. I enjoy that, intelligent, a sense of imagination and even a sense of humor.
A pointer on the other hanf UGH! The have no imagination. Heel makes little sense to them and you might have to repeat a turn a hundred times, each othe the exact same way.. LOL, He didn't much care for me and I didn't care for him. Some people think that a dog trainer should like all dogs and that all dogs wil like all people. That's just not true.
Anyway the breeder asked me to put an AKC novice obedience title on him. The funny thing is. is that when we'd get out of the ring everyone would come up and congratulate us for a great job and also how much "Apollo" clearly loved me. LOL, I never let them think differently. That year Appolo was the top winning obedience in the country.
The last I ever heard about Apollo was what a great dog he is... except, well when they go for a walk Apollo stays at his side anless to told to go play and that it's so strange, ever time he calls Apollo. Apollo stops whatever he was doing, runs back and sits right at the guys feet. Of course his owner had no idea why the dog did that but at least Apollo found the right home.
As for me, I'm about done with it. It no longer ignights a flame in me. I do both board and train and group classes. I've stopped taking the board and trains because I don't do a great job of it and it's not ethical to take peoples money when I know the dog is not trained like I promised he would be. Getting out of the house sucks and then when I start working there's no energy or imagination in my work. I start to fall behind and the people don't end up with a well trained dog I used to charge $2000 for a board and train. After paying that back a few times ( The owners didn't know, but I did and sooner or later they'd figure it out.) I decided to hang up my leashes. I also do group classes and no matter how hard I work n order for them to be successful way too many are screwing up.
I'm just done.
Who knows, maybe I find works that I want to do in collegee and then maybe the fire will come back. Cowboy the Airedale is a great duck and goode retrieving dog and the one time we went north he loved upland birds. I'd love to put a tracking, up;upland an retreaving title on him. Apprently not one AKC Airedale has ever done it. He can if I can get the fire back. Also he needs his companion dog title alont with his CDX. That all seems extreme but Cowboy is one heck of a dog.
I am excited for college though!
 
Thanks Albatross, yep, I know the feeling, it's not a good one and us dangerous for both sides. I THINK the only reason I'm still here is the level of intensity. I beilieve that the only reaon to fight is to defend your family and personal property.Other than that as a good citizen it would be more intelligent to call the police.
 
Thanks Nurse ( btw, nursing is one of the careers I'n thking of gettibg into) Also, if anyone notices my poor grammer, spelling or rambling, I apologize. The Doc has me on Oxycodone. I fell out of a tree yesterday and broke a feew fibs.
I have Pug in my house. He has two names one is Willy mad the other is Willy Lump Lump, or just plain Lumpy. While I love Cow, Lumpy holds a special place in my heart. He is a smart little guy who is quite determined and is an absolute character.
He lives for food. Sadly for poor Willy I don't use treats when I train. Also,I keep him nice and trim. He's healthy and is fairly athletic for a puglet. He knows a solid heel with an automatic sit. Sit stay, down stay, come to front,go to heel, stand for exam and the really important thing is that he does all of that offleash.
LOL, he loves to play tug of war. I think he likes to pretend that he's a pit bull cause when we play he'll hang off that rope until I get him off!
 
Nursing is a great career, I am leaving next Sunday for the first of two medical missions - I volunteer 2 - 4 times yearly - the first is in Mexico, the second in Guatemala. Interestingly enough, I started out in animal health technology, on the way to become a vet. Life took over, and here I am. Go for what speaks in your soul.
 
My dog, Annie, is a therapy dog, but I haven't finished her canine good citizen training because I swear she's had brain damage when she was in a coma from Addisons Disease. She is so loving and smart, but heel? forget about it. I do think I need to board her out but don't trust anyone to take care of her Addisons as well as I do.
 
Kwan, I tried emailing you last not. Thar might have been a fuax paux any was ,there are serveral aptions for you. Teaching your dog to heel on leash will take two weeks and that will inclide automatic sits even under great distractions.
However I have a couple of questions (please do your best to ignore my terrible writing, drugs kicking my butt. The first is do you have any limitatations that woulf limi your ability to train your dog? Second is he a swrcice dog or a therap dog. let me know. Im the mean time you will need a properly fitted choke caller a fifteen foot leash ( npt a retractable) and a six foot leather leash no thinker that half an inch..
 
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