Welcome :)
Do you know how to self soothe. It took me a while to learn this skill and when to apply it but it really helps the trick is to use it before you even get close to overwhelm.
My suggestion is to start tracking some of your thoughts over time and also when overwhelm hits. I did this and learnt that how I park my car is a huge indicator of my emotional state and that I'm heading into overwhelm, and I need to do more self soothing. Cars and/or parking have nothing to do with my traumas so I never would have found it without systematically tracking myself over time.
Hope that helps.
Do you know how to self soothe. It took me a while to learn this skill and when to apply it but it really helps the trick is to use it before you even get close to overwhelm.
My suggestion is to start tracking some of your thoughts over time and also when overwhelm hits. I did this and learnt that how I park my car is a huge indicator of my emotional state and that I'm heading into overwhelm, and I need to do more self soothing. Cars and/or parking have nothing to do with my traumas so I never would have found it without systematically tracking myself over time.
Hope that helps.