Friday
Sponsor
I can talk the details of sex down to whether I’m using the flat of my tounge or the tip or side or base, or all 4 in what order, with what degree of pressure/pull, in exactly what places, using which timing, breathing through my nose or purring in my throat... as well as what the rest of me & they are doing, how, and when... easily as I’d talk about making a PB&J sandwich. There is absolutely ZERO uncomfy-ness involved. The mechanics of sex are no weirder than cooking or car maintenance.
Which is a trick.
Would you be worried about telling her how you’re having difficulty filling the radiator, and exactly what part of it (twisting off the cap, pouring in the water/coolant) ... or hypervig about her reaction as you’re describing spreading mayo on bread before the lettuce and tomato?
Probably not, right?
But because sex-based-trauma, it’s all super charged.
So my suggestion would be to pick something you ARE super comfortable with. Whether it’s cooking or engines, and ask yourself how much she would need to know if you were describing an engine giving you problems or a recipe that isn’t working. Up until here? Works awesome. Then I start running into problems here. And by here I’m throwing the “easy out” (worst named tool, ever) or jar of mayonnaise across the room.
Last edited:
