(((HUGS))) Tlight...big ones!
(((HUGS))) Purple Butterfly. I am sorry that your family had to go thru so much.
I'm glad you found the forum. I think I have shared with you before, but take your time and read the articles here. There is so much good information that you will find helpful. Share as you are able. It will be tough, but really does help in lessening the symptoms of PTSD. Well, I should qualify that....your symptoms will initially increase and possibly quite drastically. Even reading other's posts can do that. The exposure is necessary though to desensitize us and it truly is worth it.
We had to put one of our dogs down yesterday and I woke up hurting so badly this am. Stress seems to go straight to the fascia for me. I find stretching really helps. I went thru 6 months of physical therapy for spinal stenosis in my low back and neck. It was thought initially that is what caused not only the low back and neck pain, but also all the horrible muscle pain throughout my body. I am sure that it contributed to the muscles hurting, but now I know that it is the stress of PTSD that I have had all my life. Though FM has been suggested by the doctors, I do believe that the root cause, even if FM, is PTSD. Love all the acronyms? LOL
BTW, the physical therapy really helped me. I had tried PT, Chiropractic and massage before to no avail. This was different though. Very intensive. I went 3 times a week for 1-2 hours for 6 months. I have to admit that I had an incredible PT though. It's a family business, they are Christians and use their practice as a ministry. In keeping with that, they definitely spend more time with their patients which I am sure makes a difference. His techniques are a little different too.
All that to say, that you might want to suggest intensive PT to your daughter. My experience is that people with FM don't want to exercise because it makes the pain worse. Doing PT prevents that because they take you at it so slowly. It about drove me nuts because I am a "jump in with both feet" type of person, but boy was it worth the time and money put into it.