General Just Saying A Quick Hello...

[wife of]

Not been around much recently but would just like ti say hi to everyone.

Hubby is vastly improved but it kind if brings the mire irritating symptoms to the fore abd now that he is less reliant on me I am feeling the isolation effects big style.

I'm trying to give him the room he needs to rediscover himself and maybe then he will rediscover hiw he used to feel about me.

But for now I just feel so alone....tag teamed with the anniversary of my dads death in a few days...

I kind of just wish he would put his head above the parapet of fortress hubby and see that I need a few hugs..

I hope you all have a good day.x

 

[amethist]

Hi wife of

Hard as it feels, this is progress for your husband. Give him a bit more time and the hugs will come, maybe few and far between for a while, bit they will appear eventually.

In the mean time try and get back to doing some of the things you used to, no matter how small, it will help you feel less alone.

Plus we are always here for you.

Amethist.

 

[The Albatross]

(((wife of))) I am glad that you're spouse is improving. There is nothing wrong with asking for a hug if you need one. Glad you gave it a voice gal. I'll hold your hand on your dad's anniversary. Stick a feather in your pocket and that will be "me". ;)

 

[Toria]

(((hug))) Wife Of. Personally... I think that the smaller things can be the hardest to live with - the big things throw you in to crisis mode and you don't have the time to nit pick or to stress but once the big symptoms subside it's the small stuff that we are left to stress. Andrew Lloyd Webber was very nearly my downfall on Saturday night!!!!!

Here's hoping that your wish comes true xxx

 

[Srain]

(((((((WifeOf)))))))
I have been gone a bit myself but I'm glad to see you and hear your husband is doing better. It might be difficult to ask for a hug as you have been the Supporter through so much but honestly it might be a good thing for him to be able to give back and you to receive. It's easy to get caught up and not see what is right in front of our faces even when things improve, that being the one person who has held us together during the nightmares.

Thinking of you during this difficult marking of loss.
Rain