Lips Are Moving No Sound Seems To Be Coming Out

[Hlost]

I talk but seems he just can't hear a thing. Maybe because he such a decent man who can come close to ever imagining anyone doing such things to people let alone children, he just tunes it out. He never responds or gestures. My world of horror is foreign to him. I try not to talk about it but it bombards me. I live in different decades all the time, all the time now.

I know he loves me. Just sometimes I feel like I live alone and it's difficult not take it personal.

 

[Nyx]

Unfortunately some people lack the empathy to understand certain things.. But if you are sure about him loving you, then be sure that he feels for for you. Maybe he doesn't say anything because he's afraid he could say the wrong thing..

 

[Lucycat]

Hi
I have chosen not to talk to my husband. Then when he actually asked me a question he shouted at me as he could not cope with the answer. The best I have now is that we have had a talk about talking. He knows that I have a horrid history and supports me, but he does not want to know the details. Fair enough in my opinion.

IMHO that is the benefit of forums like this. You can talk about it as much as you like to anonymous but very supportive people who do understand. Additionally I have a valued Therapist who I can talk to if I chose.

 

[Hlost]

Very smart. One of the reasons I'm very grateful to be here and hope I can stay to do that. That is exactly what I need
to be doing. Thank you.

Rain