Supporter Married By Grace

[Zhay]

My husband and I got married 2 years ago. He's dealt with rages most of his life. He is verbally abusive mostly to himself. Constant anxiety. I am both helpful and not helpful at times. I can be impatient and sarcastic and irritable. We've had a lot of challenges. At first I thought he was crazier than most people. Then I learned about C-PTSD and I realized that he's doing really well considering his challenges. Of course he doesn't see that most of the time. So I'm here for support and understanding and who knows what else.

 

[WhisperingUnicorn]

Welcome, @Zhay :) You will find LOTS of helpful threads, here, and people who are for the most part very supportive and open and honest .. I have been amazed by the stories of so many "champion hearts" .. Your title "Married by Grace" caught my attention, then I noticed your pic .. LOVE it!

Press on!

~S2B

 

[Friday]

Welcome, Zhay.

 

[Nam]

Hi. *waves*

 

[still_i_rise]

Hiya!!
I'm a sometimes impatient and sarcastic and irritable and unhelpful supporter too!! :p
We all try our best. It's all we can expect from ourselves. We're not robots, we f*ck up. We get burned out.
When we know better, we do better. But we can punish ourselves for what we did not know.
When I first started reading up on PTSD I was horrified that I had been doing all the things wasn't supposed to do.
Learning, always learning :)

 

[WhisperingUnicorn]

Well put, @still_i_rise .. :inlove:

God help us all! :hug:

~S2B

 

[intothelight]

Welcome to the forum! I hope you find the Supporters section helpful.