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T harris

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Hi, I am so glad to find this forum, as I don't have anyone to talk to where I live. A bit about myself, I was sexually harrassed (apparently that's what they call sexual assault in the workplace) bullied, intimidated, abused, physically touched and locked in a soundproof room with a trainer at work. I told my partner who reported it the next day, as I was going to resign. A couple of days later HR interviewed me along with a support person, and didn't really care much what I was saying, but they were more interested in what my support person said happened to them at the hands of the same man, where she was told to *stop being friendly* so she never made a written complaint.

Two weeks later they stood this guy down pending investigation, by then I was so traumatised at the thought of going back (as he had been following me at work) I went to the company doctor who sent me to the psychologist, who sent me to another psyc, who sent me to my dr, who put me on workers comp. The company tried to get me off it saying *they had taken reasonable managment action in a reasonable way* by "fining" this guy $5000 and sending him to counselling and education.

The story goes on and on, and just recently I have been assessed at the mat as 15%, which my lawyer wants to now go to common law over this. I wasnt allowed to go to the police, as the company threatened me over it, and now I wish I had done. :( Apparently I have PTSD, anxiety, and did have depression, but the psych says the meds are working and I am not to bad depression wise (and the man has seen my scars from self harming in my depressive states).

I was also offerred a substantial monetary amount from the MAT, but no amount of $$ will take away the nightmares, and what I have lost within myself. :( Big mining companies hide behind so called "inductions" and paperwork, and never account for the actions of management or their staff. :( Sorry just venting, I feel like the person I was is no more, and I cant stop with the *if only* but the psychologist and psychatrist are helping...worse thing is my compo payments end in january and I shall no longer be able to afford to go to them. :(

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Oh and I forgot to mention, he admitted to 11 of the 13 things I said he did to me, all with a big laughed apparently
 
Just delete my post and delete my account, I dont need this...I still have no idea what I did wrong, now I feel like a total piece of crap for trying to find help and some people to talk to who are going through similar to me. I will continue, as I have done, for the last 12 months to suffer in silence...I am not the smartest person on the books, so by the looks of it, I can't do anything right....thanks for helping people who can understand all the rules, my frame of mind is not the best, so delete away
 
I just saw this thread. Sorry to hear what you've been through.
Please understand that the responses on this forum are not immediate. If you would like immediate feedback, I would suggest going to the chat option. It isn't an insult not to receive an immediate reply.
Best wishes.
 
Hi T Harris

Many new members fell this way if their first post has been edited, but it is for a good reason. As I am sure you can appreciate, and traumatized mind struggles to read at the best of times. So trying to read one which is either in block text or badly written, would be ignored by many.

If you read the forum rules, you will see that your account cannot be deleted. The paragraph below clearly states this.

The links below are for the forum rules, which are there for everyone's benefit.

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There are no tricks in that statement, nor is ignorance of not reading such documents an excuse in a court of law

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