OliveJewel
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Ok, first off, I know menopause isn’t a disorder but I figured this is a good sub forum for it because it is treated like one. Anyway, listened to a podcast where a woman shared her experience transitioning to male and back. I learned a lot about menopause which surprised me, but after I thought about it it made sense.
This is going to admittedly ramble (poor concentration is a symptom of menopause after all) but I will try to bring it all together. So I was listening to this other podcast hosted by the manliest man Andrew Huberman. He was talking to an Israeli scientist about the inheritance of memories across generations—that’s a thing now. Anyway, they were talking about how the germ cells (sperm/eggs) don’t just wait for reproduction, they also affect all the other cells of the body’s gene expression through hormonal interactions. And Dr. Huberman
said that after neutering his dog it got depressed so he put it on testosterone therapy and it became it’s old self again. It’s important to note that Huberman is stacked. So he understands testosterone in an intimate way. I am not suggesting he supplements himself with it, just that he understands it.
Anyway, when he said his dog was depressed and then became it’s old self from the Testosterone I remembered what that woman said about her hormone journey. She said that she had already started puberty and was around 13 when she started the puberty blockers. And she said that they made her feel horrible! She had tingling, burning, itching in her legs and hands. And she was lethargic. When she started testosterone it was a welcome relief.
I have tried on multiple occasions to ask women older than me what menopause was like and they just sort of shrug and say hot flashes. So when this woman mentioned the tingling and itching I looked it up and Dr. Google said that estrogen is closely connected to skin and nerve function, which is what causes tingling, burning, itching in menopausal women when it goes away.
Then I looked up lethargy and there were innumerable articles about menopausal fatigue. I’ve been feeling more fatigued lately as I approach 50 so I think that might be related but who knows.
When she started the testosterone she experienced a sharp increase in her confidence, a massive increase in sex drive, and it was super easy to build muscle.
The sex drive and muscle made sense to me but I hadn’t thought about the confidence thing. Is it possible that men, or people with higher levels of testosterone, find it easier to slip into a sense of confidence? That had never crossed my mind but it opened an avenue of thought for me. By no means am I claiming that all men are confident and no women are confident. But I wondered about the connection between testosterone and confidence.
And what does confidence even mean? Because I think that post-menopausal women are generally more confident than younger women, but is it possible that women going through menopause have lower confidence than pre or post? I learned that testosterone levels prior to menopause are three times higher than after.
So then I thought back to Huberman’s depressed dog who received testosterone therapy. And I remembered hearing the ads for men with “low-T.” And I wondered… are men with low-T experiencing what menopausal women are dealing with? So I looked up the symptoms of low-T: low libido, infertility, muscle mass loss, fat gain, balding, mood changes, poor concentration, and less energy.
That sounds a lot like menopausal symptoms. So I looked those up too: hot flashes, night sweats, low libido, anxiety, mood swings, and low self-esteem.
Hmm… low self esteem sounds like low confidence. And they didn’t mention for women the reduced muscle/bone mass and increased fat, but I know those are symptoms too. And women bald in menopause and lose ability to focus. So then I wondered… why don’t people treat menopause with testosterone? And it turns out… they do! But only in cases where estrogen replacement therapy doesn’t work.
All this is to share my journey learning about menopause and testosterone because I am a curious science-y person who wants to know what the heck might happen to me. And also I’m wondering why women can’t get low doses of testosterone to help with fatigue, poor concentration, confidence, muscle building, etc.
If you want to share your experiences with menopause or stuff you’ve learned about it please do. And if you are a person who has experienced testosterone fluctuations or learned about testosterone please do.
This is going to admittedly ramble (poor concentration is a symptom of menopause after all) but I will try to bring it all together. So I was listening to this other podcast hosted by the manliest man Andrew Huberman. He was talking to an Israeli scientist about the inheritance of memories across generations—that’s a thing now. Anyway, they were talking about how the germ cells (sperm/eggs) don’t just wait for reproduction, they also affect all the other cells of the body’s gene expression through hormonal interactions. And Dr. Huberman

Anyway, when he said his dog was depressed and then became it’s old self from the Testosterone I remembered what that woman said about her hormone journey. She said that she had already started puberty and was around 13 when she started the puberty blockers. And she said that they made her feel horrible! She had tingling, burning, itching in her legs and hands. And she was lethargic. When she started testosterone it was a welcome relief.
I have tried on multiple occasions to ask women older than me what menopause was like and they just sort of shrug and say hot flashes. So when this woman mentioned the tingling and itching I looked it up and Dr. Google said that estrogen is closely connected to skin and nerve function, which is what causes tingling, burning, itching in menopausal women when it goes away.
Then I looked up lethargy and there were innumerable articles about menopausal fatigue. I’ve been feeling more fatigued lately as I approach 50 so I think that might be related but who knows.
When she started the testosterone she experienced a sharp increase in her confidence, a massive increase in sex drive, and it was super easy to build muscle.
The sex drive and muscle made sense to me but I hadn’t thought about the confidence thing. Is it possible that men, or people with higher levels of testosterone, find it easier to slip into a sense of confidence? That had never crossed my mind but it opened an avenue of thought for me. By no means am I claiming that all men are confident and no women are confident. But I wondered about the connection between testosterone and confidence.
And what does confidence even mean? Because I think that post-menopausal women are generally more confident than younger women, but is it possible that women going through menopause have lower confidence than pre or post? I learned that testosterone levels prior to menopause are three times higher than after.
So then I thought back to Huberman’s depressed dog who received testosterone therapy. And I remembered hearing the ads for men with “low-T.” And I wondered… are men with low-T experiencing what menopausal women are dealing with? So I looked up the symptoms of low-T: low libido, infertility, muscle mass loss, fat gain, balding, mood changes, poor concentration, and less energy.
That sounds a lot like menopausal symptoms. So I looked those up too: hot flashes, night sweats, low libido, anxiety, mood swings, and low self-esteem.
Hmm… low self esteem sounds like low confidence. And they didn’t mention for women the reduced muscle/bone mass and increased fat, but I know those are symptoms too. And women bald in menopause and lose ability to focus. So then I wondered… why don’t people treat menopause with testosterone? And it turns out… they do! But only in cases where estrogen replacement therapy doesn’t work.
All this is to share my journey learning about menopause and testosterone because I am a curious science-y person who wants to know what the heck might happen to me. And also I’m wondering why women can’t get low doses of testosterone to help with fatigue, poor concentration, confidence, muscle building, etc.
If you want to share your experiences with menopause or stuff you’ve learned about it please do. And if you are a person who has experienced testosterone fluctuations or learned about testosterone please do.
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