Mothers Day-thoughts

[ladee]

It's not something you have to do @gizmo... not at all... But I think about how far you have come,just since I joined here, and you are making your life what you need it to be... without her, and with being totally honest with yourself.. I will never have compassion for the other half...(sperm donor), so believe me, I understand !! Sending gentle hugs of understanding....

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Thank you @ladee I am sad because I have not heard from my daughter and the grandkids yet. I forgot to plan something special for me today,, got caught off guard again.:hug:

 

[ladee]

@gizmo, I don't hear from my son either... we talk all the time, but won't hear from him today.... sucks !!! But that is on him now, I know what I gave him, I take responsibility for the things I couldn't give him... self forgiveness and compassion for ourselves goes a long long ways on days like today !!! It's not too late to do something special for your self... sending hugs and Happy Mothers Day !! from me ...

 

[Deleted member 12723]

@ladee I am sorry about your son. Happy Mothers Day to you too. I am going to have pizza for dinner tonight and am feeling so much better now

 

[Deleted member 33052]

@gizmo

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Thank you so much @Mal Content You just made my day!:hug::hug::hug:

 

[ladee]

I appreciate it @gizmo, but I no longer hurt behind this one... that guy has made me pay, and pay, and pay... so I am happy to say this is one area I have made a lot of headway on.... the flowers are beautiful, just like you !!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

@ladee I am so happy for you being healed and moved on from this.:hug:

 

[ladee]

@gizmo, thanks... this one almost killed me. So if I can do this, and do some serious healing and letting go... I shouldn't have a super hard time with others things I need to do to become a whole person.. No one on the planet had as much power as he did to hurt me... Now I just see it for what it is... and I am no longer the victim.... took a long time, but was worth it. I love him, but don't have to like him or his choices...

I have no regrets... don't know about him tho.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

@ladee you are so right on the mark. You actually helped me on that one.

 

[ladee]

@gizmo, seems if we can forgive our self and move forward about our kids.... then everything else is just things we have to do to get better. We are MOMS.... that is a different kind of pain... or it was for me... we are here, doing what we need to do .... and we can and of course, will, still love them.... sending you lots of hugs.... you aren't alone with this one either !!!

 

[Deleted member 12723]

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