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pedro morris
Hello. Srry for bad lang I recently started learning english.
Im 22 male and I met this girl last year. She lived in another town and we were talking befor she moves here. ( she got accepted in my university in my city). So she moved here and we got friends and I have seen her most of the days for a year and we are going to marry in 2-3 years.
Last month she told me she was raped 4 years ago by her exboyfriend while she was 17. She has a hard argument with her parents (by the way her parents were divorcing in that time) and she scapes from her house for a week. This guy (the ex) brings here to another town near her home town (he had a house there ) and keeps her there. After some day he requestes sex and she refuses. I should say that this guy had beated her previously (befor the scape story, I mean he was using violence most of the time).then after six or seven days he makes an argument with her and starts beating her and then he rapes my girl friend.
Now she has recovered from the event but I saw a text from an unknown guy on her phone last month. I asked her who he is and she started crying and telling me what had happened. The thing is she returns home and tell her parents the story and togather they make a complaint against the guy but the judge doesnt see enough evidences for the crime.(unfortunately, here in iran, most of the times court doesn't accept the criminals guilt (about rape) and says its the victims fault that has gone to the place).
Now that guy is walking freely and I just cant deal with it because he hadn't got the punishment he should, and now he's texting her and asking for hang outs and bothering her again.
I was angry at this most of the time for the past month and I don't know what to do. Im a professional boxer and I'm pretty sure that if I go after the guy(I found where he lives by his ip) I can't prevent my self from killing him. I can destroy his skull in less than a minute. But I don't want to commit murder. Im not a pscho.
But I'm angry most of the times about this. I can't sleep I can't eat. I just imagine her being raped by the bastard ex and every time I start planning to find him and at the end I just calm down for a second and I don't do it.
What should I do now? The law doesn't support us. I can't stop imaginations. I can't stop remembering her telling the story while crying. And it is what I can do real easy. To do the justice. If I don't, then whats the justice (I dont bleave in hell so don't suggest me to wait for the later justice) .im so confused and angry at the same time...
Im 22 male and I met this girl last year. She lived in another town and we were talking befor she moves here. ( she got accepted in my university in my city). So she moved here and we got friends and I have seen her most of the days for a year and we are going to marry in 2-3 years.
Last month she told me she was raped 4 years ago by her exboyfriend while she was 17. She has a hard argument with her parents (by the way her parents were divorcing in that time) and she scapes from her house for a week. This guy (the ex) brings here to another town near her home town (he had a house there ) and keeps her there. After some day he requestes sex and she refuses. I should say that this guy had beated her previously (befor the scape story, I mean he was using violence most of the time).then after six or seven days he makes an argument with her and starts beating her and then he rapes my girl friend.
Now she has recovered from the event but I saw a text from an unknown guy on her phone last month. I asked her who he is and she started crying and telling me what had happened. The thing is she returns home and tell her parents the story and togather they make a complaint against the guy but the judge doesnt see enough evidences for the crime.(unfortunately, here in iran, most of the times court doesn't accept the criminals guilt (about rape) and says its the victims fault that has gone to the place).
Now that guy is walking freely and I just cant deal with it because he hadn't got the punishment he should, and now he's texting her and asking for hang outs and bothering her again.
I was angry at this most of the time for the past month and I don't know what to do. Im a professional boxer and I'm pretty sure that if I go after the guy(I found where he lives by his ip) I can't prevent my self from killing him. I can destroy his skull in less than a minute. But I don't want to commit murder. Im not a pscho.
But I'm angry most of the times about this. I can't sleep I can't eat. I just imagine her being raped by the bastard ex and every time I start planning to find him and at the end I just calm down for a second and I don't do it.
What should I do now? The law doesn't support us. I can't stop imaginations. I can't stop remembering her telling the story while crying. And it is what I can do real easy. To do the justice. If I don't, then whats the justice (I dont bleave in hell so don't suggest me to wait for the later justice) .im so confused and angry at the same time...
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