My Va Counselor Called Me.

[thomas.robinson.54966]

So VA c counselor called me today asked what was going on after a few days ago a senior doc from the PTSD program gave me a survey and I told the truth. My counselor wanted to know if I wanted to go back through the course. I just started a new job I can't do that. Maybe I can go back to group I said. I don't know. I know what I need and she still won't talk to me. I struggle between wanting to cry and wanting to go to her house and bust her door down. I don't need the baker act though. I am trying to give her space but my selfishness takes over and I miss her.

 

[Sleeping Dragon]

My Brother,

Good choice. Don't break down any doors, windows, bar stools or anything else that looks like it deserves destruction.

Right now your greates resourse is time. Give yourself plenty of it. Stay in the moment, and work on only what you see as something that's in your power to change for the better. The simpler the better.

SD

 

[BaMuoiBa]

thomas, listen to SD!

I know what I need and she still won't talk to me.

She needs the space to sort things out but you my friend need to heal.

Keep your mind busy with work and the beast at bay with group. Too much of any one thing right now is not good.

Ba

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

I emailed her twice today no text no attempts to call and one e card. I am going to try this space thing I hope it works. I miss her and it hurts worse than a snipers bullet to a chest plate.

 

[dutchiedelta]

Thomas, brace yourself for some tough love lad.
Two emails and an ecard would freak me out.
The woman is upset and pregnant right? Please try to understand she needs to recover and this many electronic contact might feel like stalking.

Sorry to bring it to you like that but keep in mind she has no clue what whirlwind ptsd does to a mind.
Ease up and think of what she needs.
You mean well but pre-ptsd I'd run a mile from a man who sent this much.

Easy does it. She now knows you want to continue the relationship. Give her time to breath son.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Ok thanks

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Let's see if I can do better tomorrow