I am divorced after 23 years of marriage to an alcoholic and have recently started dating my high school "sweetheart"/first love again. He has been married multiple times and suffers from PTSD. I am trying to learn all I can to help me deal with the issues that have come up (ie lack of trust, depression, thinking I'll leave like all previous women have, not showing much affection, etc) I am committed to making this relationship work but I definitely need help! I can't help but feel discouraged at times.