Sufferer Newbie To This

[allofat]

As someone who has PTSD, depression, chronic pain, ADHD, I often think I would bem better off on my way to the next life. I have it all planned out. my husband is a great provider, but I don't feel I have the emotional support from him I need. My mother has unintentially deserted me; she has Alzheimer's. one big thing that prevents it is my grandson. I don't want to ruin his life. He has a deadbeat father, he hasn't seen in over a year. I just don't understand the mentality of a slime like him.

 

[Dallas]

I often think I would bem better off on my way to the next life.

I would stop a minute to pray and ask God what He thinks about that one. Would He want you to waste the life He gave you?

Sincerely,
Dallas.

 

[devildoc130]

I also agree with Dallas.

 

[discarded]

I am sure that a lot of us at some time has felt we would be better off if we were on our way to the next life, but fortunately most of us have valid reasons for wanting to keep on going everyday, the one you mention being your grandson. It is a shame you don't feel your husband provides emotionally for you, unfortunately men don't often think the way women do and have a hard time relating to us and our needs. He possibly doesn't even realise you feel this way and believes he is doing a good job. Sometimes we just have to be very direct when letting them know what it is we need.

Hopefully you will get a lot of support on here and will not feel so down anymore. ((((hugs))))

 

[KP the nut]

Hi and welcome to the forum.

 

[DharmaGirl]

Welcome! I hope you find the forum as uplifting and knowlegable as I have. I have allowed folks here to help me when I was down, and I have been able to share kindness with others as I heal. I hope you continue to post and find solace here.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Welcome to the forum. :)

 

[intothelight]

Hi Alofat,

Welcome to the PTSD Forum! :)

You are not alone in feeling the pain of the present is too much to bear, and wanting to escape it. But with therapy, resources like this forum, support and the commitment to get better, the symptoms of PTSD can be managed and life can be better and enjoyed again.

Take your time and read the articles and posts here. One of the greatest gifts of this forum is realizing that you are not alone any more in your struggles.

Take care.

Debbie