Unfortunately my partner is alcohol dependent. It didn't bother me at first I think because I was trying to rewrite the narrative of drinking and alcohol and also overriding my personal triggers with it. But now I see myself trying to "override" a lot of toxic traits in my adulthood. It does concern me more than bother me, because I know where day drinking on weekends *can* escalate to. My partner is definitely not a reckless drunk or gets wasted every day, but he does emotionally depend on it. I'm a drinker too, but more as a nightly "wind down" because of my anxiety at night.Drunk people give me a bad feeling too....my father was a drunk.....almost every night....and first thing on weekend mornings. Yep.....if I drink something, it's usually a really small amt.....I can't stand sloppy, rude drunks......to much reminder of my childhood drunk father.