Okay, Another One Of Us In Here, It Seems?

[Ronin]

<grin> Let practicalness decide about that. If it helps & makes for a better life, it helps. If it doesn't quite get there / adds other complications, discard.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

What about stuff that does both? Those thigns are seriously confusing. As both options hurt

 

[Ronin]

Lesser of the many evils / what will be the least damaging in respects you can't take damage in (as opposed to just seriously don't want to.)

 

[Stickler]

I am noting that running away is least likely to get you and everyone else in your head seriously injured or in legal trouble.

 

[Ronin]

^^ This.

And it isn't cowardice. It's picking your fights, & winning them by being safe, which is a way better way to win.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Thank you.

I try to do that as much as possible, the problem is some things I still suck at controling.

 

[Ronin]

Nobody can control life, Saelben. But your own behavior? Without a doubt you can. You need to find how.

 

[Deleted member 32731]

Same thing happened to me when I was in Walmart and encountered somebody who I had developed a great fear of for, well, reasons. I just rushed off and ran in the bathroom to collect myself. It sucks, that's really scary what you just went through. Hope you feel better:)

 

[Deleted member 28403]

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The wierd thing is, it wasn't me that got me home, it was another one