On What Planet...

[hodge]

Yep, now the waist is the last to go for me. It used to be my hips were last, but now it's the waist. Weird.

 

[Kailani]

Don't feel bad, happened to me too. He said something to the effect of I would love it if you got implants. I said you pay then. Haha. Truly I do see that I am a bit smaller and not big and I myself have considered it. Another comment was I was thinner than many other women he had dated. Thinner and smaller or bigger and heavier? Off ft!!!! It's all good. Everyone is different. He is not my boyfriend now though but it's unrelated. Hope you realize you are great and there are pros and cons either way!

 

[Freedomfighter]

... is it ever ok for a man to suggest to his girlfriend that she might start to save up for breast a...

I used to know a couple a long time ago. The woman in that marriage pretty much thought her husband was a god. It was soooo disturbing to watch. At the end of the day at a party she proclaimed that they were all much happier since she had gotten implants due to his suggestion. I remember being grossed out. Not only did they share something very private that really had no place at the dinner party. But it was also evident that this woman would have cut off her foot in order to be submissive.

Such cases are actually very disturbing because the woman risks her health.

Hey ladies, if a guy suggests that to you maybe you could suggest something from him in return... you know what I mean, for him to get a bigger brain maybe, or bigger b....

Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What would a man do if a woman suggested something like that, hmmmmm?

 

[lostforgottensoul]

I think he was just talking before thinking and maybe joking around before thinking.

My step sister's husband says all sorts of comments that would be offensive to most and you have to know him to not become offended most of the time. His brother was worse. And thats just him. Thats how he jokes around.

I have a cousin (double my age) that does the same and would make me cry when I was little and my dad would say he only picks on me cause he likes me. He was an adult.

Im am NOT saying it was right. Someone was hurt so that makes it not right. I am saying he may have been joking, thinking with his dick, not thinking at all and just saying something he saw on tv and didnt think before he spoke.

I do think Anonymous needs to talk to him about it, let him know he hurt her, advise he needs to think before speaking, etc, but I just dont see this super serious as I dont think it is that serious. I dont think he dislikes her body. I may be wrong, I often am, but to me it didnt sound like a serious, call them now-like comment, always putting down her body or always making comments like this. And if it were id think differently.

I do, though, think a talk is in order.