My selfperception:
I am weak because I am not articulate enough, not strong enough, any criticism feels like it destroys the very core, I am not very intelligent,I am aggressive like a child, and no one seems to find me interesting. = SHAME
My ideal me:
Is not apologetic all the time, is articulate and can be aggressive in a good way, Is assertive, if she has an opinion she will stick to it.
If I scan closer I think I cannot face life's obstacles because of my fragilness..