Really awful week

[glittermoon28]

My mom’s stepdad died, I had a really stupid fight with my sister and my mom, my first trip to a cool restaurant is forever tainted by said fight and now I feel like my sister hates me, my dad’s recovering from knee surgery which is taking a toll on all of us, and I’m being bullied online by homophobes. I’m finding it really hard to go on because I’m sick of being harassed and made fun of. Also, one of the bullies made fun of me for still living with my parents even though I can’t afford to move out.

 

[Liljulz67]

My mom’s stepdad died, I had a really stupid fight with my sister and my mom, my first trip to a cool restaurant is forever tainted by said fight and now I feel like my sister hates me, my dad’s recovering from knee surgery which is taking a toll on all of us, and I’m being bullied online by homophobes. I’m finding it really hard to go on because I’m sick of being harassed and made fun of. Also, one of the bullies made fun of me for still living with my parents even though I can’t afford to move out.

Shit happens in Life we have no control over and it really Sucks when it happens.i had an episode on New Years day and had to end a 20 years relationship, I regret the whole mess for months this year and alot of it had to do with things not being talked about.i now think that's the best thing that happened to me this year,I was tired of trying to make things work. And also needs not being met so what started awful ended being great for me.was also bullied most of my life and could have easily given up.Do not empower people,you matter and know things will change,it is easier to give up than keep going.Trust me,it is not easy to get through it sometimes.Take care of you.

 

[Movingforward10]

My mom’s stepdad died, I had a really stupid fight with my sister and my mom, my first trip to a cool restaurant is forever tainted by said fight and now I feel like my sister hates me, my dad’s recovering from knee surgery which is taking a toll on all of us, and I’m being bullied online by homophobes. I’m finding it really hard to go on because I’m sick of being harassed and made fun of. Also, one of the bullies made fun of me for still living with my parents even though I can’t afford to move out.

It's so hard when there are lots of things all at once.
Does reframing things help? Sometimes seeing it from a different perspective can help shift things along, I find that anyways.

With the online harassment and bullying, is there a way of removing yourself from that website? Or if it is various people, can you block and report them?

If your sister hates you, is that a fact or just how it feels? I don't know how old you both are, but things can potentially improve.

It's ok to have a stupid argument. Relationships have their ups and downs. It would be impossible not to have an argument?
It is a cognitive distortion that your first fancy restaurant experience is forever tainted. Because you can choose to see it differently? Just a set of circumstances and many more in the future to go better and be more like what you want.

It can get better.