Recurring Dreams

[IamFree]

Hello any knowledge available ? my mother was murdered 11 years ago. I have a reccuring dream in different variations but with the same out come. ..that the murder did not happen and she is still alive. I wake up and have to realise again it did happen..anyone understand what causes this to happen..can anything be done to help it or will I have to learn how to live with it.

 

[Pixielicious]

Hello Terry, so sorry about what happened to your mom and everything that you've been through because of it :hug:
I hope what I write now is acceptable to the administration because I am going to write about spirituality and not psychology.
When my mom died from lung cancer in 2011,I was devastated and I went on a 6-8 week drinking binge.
I'm only 4"11 and I was downing 2-3 litrs of vodka and 2 bottles of white wine a week and not eating anything at all.
My mom appeared in my dreams and she said "Pixie, please stop drinking, you're killing yourself. I will not and cannot come back alive no matter how much you drink. I love you and I want you to know that I'm happy now, where I am. I am free from pain and anguish and I want you to continue living, you have much to do before you die"
I woke up the next morning and my desire to kill myself, to join my mom in the afterlife was gone.
I believe in the afterlife, I believe that we as humans live on after death. I believe that death is just another journey we continue, into.
I also have reason to believe that your dream, is your mom telling you that it's time to believe that she has found peace and is happy.
And that she wants you to be happy too. To live.

 

[shimmerz]

Is there something going on in your life right now that could be construed as you needing a mother, are thinking of being a mother, are lacking a maternal influence or are attaching to a maternal influence?

I used to have dreams of my mother when any of the above noted issues came up in my life.

 

[IamFree]

Is there something going on in your life right now that could be construed as you needing a mother, ar...

its interesting you mention that I have been getting along well with a lady in work. yesterday I was having an afternoon nap at home and I woke up and was resting and I felt her energy in the left side of my chest it was like mother energy it felt nice..i will not tell her it might freak her out a bit.

 

[IamFree]

Hello Terry, so sorry about what happened to your mom and everything that you've been through beca...

I am open minded . it makes sense in terms of the dreams always involve some disbelief and non acceptance I am willing to consider anything . often in the dreams I am angry with her because she is alive and I thought she was dead which still does not make sense right now.

 

[Pixielicious]

I am open minded . it makes sense in terms of the dreams always involve some disbelief and non acceptan...

It makes total sense to me.
It's kind of like, "how dare you still be alive when am trying to cope not having you alive next to me"? When you're not here answering my questions?
With my own mom, though we forgave each other before she died, I still have questions, lots of questions, lots of 'whys'... Why mom, WHY?
Dunno if that made any sense, but like shimmer said, and I'm looking at it from a psychological point of view, something in your real life is also triggering this.
I am capable of being so open minded that I can take in all kinds of views...There is no right or wrong way to view it imo because everything is connected. Into one.
Kinda like, a hand with five fingers. 4 fingers & 1 thumb & palm = a hand... :inlove: