Supporter Seeking Help And Support As The Supporter Of A Love

[lostinlove]

Hello, been reading alot and feel somewhat refreshed in my desire to continue this struggle.

Afraid to post too many personal details not sure if my person might be on these sites.

He is aware of his issues of pushing away even told me upfront it would happen. I have continued to show I wouldn't desert and have actually been told by him that I have proven myself to him that he can trust me.

When does it become pushing away that I should just say ok you win I have no fight left. I have begun to wonder if he knows he can trust me why still push. Why cut me out then out of nowhere I will get several days of heartfelt open feelings and then poof gone.

I need help to stay strong if I should be strong or do I just say I tried and he wouldn't even meet me at the halfway mark?

 

[sisu]

Hello lostinlove. Welcome! Is your love doing therapy or taking meds at this time? If he isn't then the push/pull will continue to get worse. Come on over to the supporters section - lots of great threads and stickys at the top of each thread. Plus you can ask anything you like so you can learn as much as you can. And please take care of yourself!
Sisu