Spouses Should Be Respected Not Rejected

[abnjmcw4]

My first visit just in rage me!!!!!!!

Michelle , thank you for your support for your husband. I understand what spouses go through and your the one who has to live with this new stranger in your home. Your the one who is by his side when he is working thru his demons and wiping the tears away from his face and nursing him back to health. Thank you for staying by his side when he is putting you thru the things that he has put you through. With out spouses like yourself the new era of veterans would be a lot like the Vietnam vets, homeless and lonely with out hope. Again I think you for your support of combat vets and I am sorry about your husband treating you so tear ably just to come on this web site to be treated as an outsider again and kicked in the stomach again.
I am a combat Vet served all over Iraq and Afghanistan I just joined this site from a suggestion from my psychiatrist. I was told its good forums and could help me out a lot. Well here I am and the first story I read is about Michelle supporting her husband and Barberian totally disrespected her. You did not help her Combat Veteran spouse at all you just made his life worse. Not sure but if i was giving my spouse a second chance and a site like this rejected me so harshly I would say f*ck it. You need to think out of the box and think about spouses and the PTSD they are going through. Jimmy you use better tach but you pissed me off by saying good job but if you post here again I will ban you from both sites. Jimmy and Barberian do you not realize your talking to a lady who is suffering as much as your fellow combat vet. How about not saying a thing the first time a lady post but the second time use more tach and say. " Ma'am think you for your comments but can you please use myptsd it is built and supported by spouses and veterans not combat veterans. I believe the myptsd site will give you more support, but your welcome to read mycombatptsd to see how other combat veterans like your husband are saying about their issues, just please post your comments on myptsd and reference what you read from mycombatptsd"

I am going to go ahead and stop rambling I am so pissed off right now and i can feel my insides boiling. I will try to give this site a chance and not give up my recover because to two Jerks.

Airborne All The Way!!!!!!

PS> Barberian, how can you post when your not even smart enough to spell your name correctly. Barbarian dumb ass!!!! I may have grammatical errors due to inside rage, but yes I know how to spell my own dang name.

 

[Chin Strapped]

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[atilla]

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[dutchiedelta]

Link Removed, as a veteran I want a place that is for me and my peers.
It is written clearly in the description. Combat veterans.
There are fantastic groups for relatives, spouses and anyone else who has a PTSD person in their life.

This is for vets only.
Spouses when we have them are respected (or not in individual cases) but this site is not for them.

I come here to speak freely about what's bugging me and hunbun, no matter how involved, how empathic, how wonderful anyone's spouse is.... They'll never know how it feels.
Even if they did, they weren't there.

So you have no f*cking clue how much self control it takes me now not to get abusive.
I feel violated by both people thinking rules don't apply to them and by people calling others names in a place that should be safe for PTSD COMBAT people.

I'm not a mod here, just a relative new member with a long history of seeing people bending rules as they see fit.
And sugar, watch your tongue cos I am not going to take any more abuse.

Btw, It's "You're the one", not your. Grammar 101 and take that from a non-English native speaker.

 

[reddevil1111]

You just joined the site.

You then decide you don't agree with the forum rules.

you then post a rant and attack two well known members on the NEW to you forum.

I cant help but wonder how you feel your going to fit in. How can you expect to get help or become part of the community? 99% of us that join the forum WANT the forum to be 100% free of anything but combat vets. Hmmm... might there be a reason why? you stand alone in wanting spouses on here. There is a dedicated site designed for spouses. Might there be a reason for that as well?

If you think they were abusive you have not spent any kind of time in the forum reading. I am the BIGGEST ASSHOLE to invaders of this forum. I have deliberately backed off from being so abusive. But to yell at them for telling her she didn't belong? Grow up!

If you expect to use this forum and gain help you might want to reconsider your attitude. Your not doing real good at becoming anything short of a troll. YOU should say SORRY and fast. Its just so easy to get banned here being abusive to members. Picking fights is not how you make friends.

I reported you to the site admin. I hope you get banned. I don't think you belong in here with your current views. Good luck.

 

[reddevil1111]

BTW? you cant spell for shit either its not tach its tact.

Good thing this forum does not worry about spelling huh?

Its so impressive how you make friends. I bet you were supply clerk. You just decided it would be fun to come in here and stir the pot a bit.

Oh yeah we never see that happen in here....your the FIRST EVER....lol

I think your name should be Troll. its fits better. Your posting sounds nothing like a combat vet. Most combat vets don't attack others, they give space and respect. They know the value of words and actions. There is a lot more to combat than what you got from playing call of duty.

 

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Ah, the internet...

 

[Wagon]

Ooops you downed on a fellow squid. Now I'll have to give you a meeting with Mr. Dogging wrench.

But to keep it clean abnwtfxyz4. I highly recommend you go and engage in some sort of self fornication.

Actually don't even think you are an American. Looks like you ran that text through a translation machine. Syntax way off, hell. You are a crappy troll.

"I served all over Iraq and Afghanistan" Yeah right. Who the hell says that? Pretty funny poser.

 

[Barberian]

PS> Barberian, how can you post when your not even smart enough to spell your name correctly. Barbarian dumb ass!!!! I may have grammatical errors due to inside rage, but yes I know how to spell my own dang name.

I spelled it that way on purpose because my last name is Barber. I added "ian" because I wanted to morph it to a personal form of Barbarian. Congratulations on being able to spell abnjmcw4. How do you faceroll that reliably every time?

As for how I posted to Michelle, I was respectful to her. I was polite to her. I did not attack her for not reading the site rules. I restated rules she might have missed while signing up here. I was formal and direct to avoid any confusion or misinterpretation. I directed her to a site that is run by the owners of this site and thought that was the best thing I could do for her. I respect Anthony and Nichole, the owner of this site and www.myptsd.com to which I linked in my reply and highly recommend thier sites.

I even encouraged her husband to check out this site.

By the way, just exactly how did I disrespect Michelle?

You, on your very first post attacked members here. Both Jimmy and I, and for the record, most of the forum members in our own separate ways do what we can to help others who come here. This is a community of vets, for vets.

I will forgive you this trespass this one time. I know that means nothing to anybody but me. A lot of people when they first show up here are a mess. I know I was, yet I was still allowed to stay. People either settle down, bounce out, or get bounced out. The choice is up to you. BTW, I am a nobody here, just a member. Insulting me does nothing but show your lack of character, I'll get over it.

 

[Sarg]

Well, I'm not just a member, I'm a big badassed anus that likes, no, enjoys kicking dicks like you off the site. You want to come here, be civil, contribute what benefits others, you're welcome. But you've already worn out your welcome and you're nothing more than the static bags I had to drag back in after kicking your young ass off my plane.

Any more bullshit out of you and you're gone...clear?

Sarg

 

[Jimmy1]

Nah, :poop:

My first visit just in rage me!!!!!!!

Mate, I won't even go there really, but you have no idea at all whatsoever.

You have a go at Barberian for the way he chooses to spell his name? If you were smart enough the first time you would have read the two sticky posts up the very top of the introductions area. You also would have read the rules and know that the site is for veterans only.

We have one or two of those posts from spouses every couple of weeks. They know for a fact they are not meant to be posting on the site, but they do anyway.

I can understand you having concerns for the partner, but if you are truly a airborne, you would have more concern for your fellow brother or sister.

My last point is to tell you that the way we both spoke to her was actually quite tame and polite, well, it never used to be.

My last point is that if you bothered to 'Read This First' sticky. You will be told it's polite to introduce yourself and once again are told it's for Veterans Only and gives you a link.

So f*ck YOU buddy. I am not apologising.

Regards

Jimmy

 

[Wagon]

Folks, If you read that mail real close. I think it is just a troll looking to stir shit up. No way that is American either. Even with the poorest of grammatics a native speaker will just write how they speak. No American speaks like this or writes like this.

Kind of sorry I wasted my time.

What's the saying....."Don't feed the Trolls"

I also think the troll is female......which screws up another lesbian video opportunity. :poop::poop::poop: