Stand Off At Supermarket Checkout...

[Grama-Herc]

helena

I know the feeling. Having a stalker in your life is probably one of the most unnerving things a female can go through. I know, I had one.

My stalker came from my mothers church. All the little ole ladies were convinced that the tall, dark and handsome singer in the choir was perfect for me. They did not rest until finally we came face to face at the Christmas Eve service. You could see the excitment on all their little ole wrinkled faces when the tall handsome singer had finally been introduced to me.

We went out once--I repeat ONCE!!!!!!!!! Without going into a very long, long explanation, I did not enjoy it. So when he showed up the next afternoon at my apt. on his bicycle, yes, his bicycle, I was not real happy. Apparently the car we went out in was his mommys' car> I declined his request for another date and he left. BUT--------------------------------!!

I went through 6 months of hell with him. Showing up at my work(I worked the 3-11 shift) scaring the hell out of me, hour and hours of messages on my phone, strange gifts on my patio, the list goes on.

My mother and the rest of the "ladies" felt so bad, as they should. I was so pissed!

Wish I had a guy I could have "introduced" him to LOL. Stay safe, OK

 

[Abrasky]

Can you not see that I am with an OCD, ex commando, hypervigilant control freak who will break your neck without a moments thought.

LOL thanks for the laugh. That is my funny quote that will get me through the day. Anger is good when it is used protectively my psychologist told me. It can save your life. if you both thought stalky guy was was crossing your boundaries and being stalky then trust your instincts. Stalky guy was the one that had issues, not your partner. I think he is wonderful for having anger and using it in a way to protect you against this bloke who clearly has stalker helloooooooo issues.[/quote]

 

[Sasha]

I think your SO's response to that guy should put an end to his behavior, at least I hope so. In the mean time, have a wonderful weekend and happy cupboard cleaning ; )

 

[popeye]

It's kinda nice to have guys like him around in situations like that. I honestly wish my wife could have a guy like that follow her around all the time.

I thought it was funny too.