A "controlled confrontation" I'm seeing at as this, and great way for me to start looking at it differently. Thank you for helping me to begin to look at this from a different angle, as I've mentioned before, I see things and how they really are but I can be things so skewed that at moments like this she encourages to me check it out with her before jumping to conclusions. This last time was especially rough but I'm glad I did.
Thanks so much for the input Froggie.
Rain