Survivors Guilt.

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I called my niece today and of course my sister got on the phone too. It was ok. But my nieces son got on the phone and would not give the phone back to his mom, so I had to cut it short. I had hoped to call my niece to see how my sister was doing.

She did not seem upset over my sister being sick. Either she is in denial or my sister is not that sick. I have no way of finding out. I will try again when her son is in school.

I decided to be proactive and not be so afraid of my sister. I will keep it limited to phone contact only. They cannot come out here because they have a leaky water pump that they have to fix on their car. My sister is carpooling to work with friends. The niece takes her son to school and picks him up, and I suppose they go shopping.

Their boy is autistc and has adhd. He is wild and out of control again. He was doing so good when he was in foster care. I am afraid that my niece will lose custody of him if my sister dies. She is frail and not physically strong enough to handle him.

I do not know what will happen. But I got more information by calling. All is not well with them. But I am no longer afraid. I will keep my boundries firm.

 

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Well done Gizmo. :hug:

Is there a dr or someone involved with treatment that you would be able to speak to directly?

 

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No I am afraid not. I would have to get that information from my sister and she would have to give permission to the doctor to speak to me. Too much of a hassle. I will find out what is really going on.Thank you anyway. It is a good idea.

I will find out what is going on. And I will take steps to protect myself.