Tale As Old As Time

[Bananie]

Since my mind processes everything better with songs, the lyric that's been kicking around for this sitch is "Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose."
And right on my treatment plan, a direct quote from me "Freedom's always been a kind of theme in my life."
I'm already not his client anymore, and I'm already hurt, so what do I have to lose by asking for at least a closure session?
But..how? Call the new place? Try the number on his site? Email? I feel stalkerish that way. I think I'll just wait to ask new T. Practice another common theme in my life; patience, or my lack, thereof.

 

[FireSign8]

It sucks when professional people get stuck on stupid. Last year my PCP (primary care physician) just disappears & all of my records went with him. The clinic won't give me any info & no one seems to know what to do. It's bad enough that I already had my identity stolen on 2 occasions & now I have to start all over again trying to piece together my medical history in order to get any type of care in my new location. Why even use computers if the professionals can lock you out of your own medical files!?!:banghead:I feel your pain:inpain:!:hug:

 

[Bananie]

I'm updating my old thread to not start a new one, is that ok?
I went to the new therapist that he had passed me on to twice. We did NOT hit it off. When I went in last week, I told her, I still don't think I can do it, but I'm definitely thinking of ways to end it. She told me to get the eff over it. I kinda shut down, and she babbled for a little bit, and then she said, I'm getting a really blank look from you, where's your head at? I said, it's out the door, so, I'm going to go. She's like, but we have 15 minutes left! I replied, take a break. Enjoy.
I spent the next day sleeping, hoping not to wake up. A friend almost called for a MHA. Instead, I talked to friends. I thought of options. I went to a friends house in the burbs, with a lot of trees around, and I was feeling better, and made an appointment with a therapist NOT at the clinic, one that I've seen two separate times in the past, briefly, for specific purposes, but couldn't continue on with her at those times, so I'm looking forward to that appointment. But I'm going to ask her, as I'm asking you guys now, how "crazy" would it be to follow my old T to the new place he's working?
I played the VM he left (yes, I saved it. I know, cray)for my old boss, and she said, well, he couldn't tell you come along, or invite you, but, he told you where he was going to be. I hadn't thought of it like that, I was stuck on him saying "move forward" and I hope you hit it off with new T.
So.... can I call the other clinic and ask specifically to see him? Should I?

 

[ladee]

If you go back and read the begininning of your thread, @joeylittle highly suggested you give him a call... time has passed, and it woudln't look 'stalkerish', so take a chance.... it may be NO, but then you won't be wondering...good luck.... it may just what you need to move forward... what ever the answer.... let us know... lots of hugs!!

 

[Bananie]

I did type first write later, and did go back and reread, and pretty much every one said, yeah, contact him. Feelin a bit sheepish! :) Thanks all for being here :) thanks @ladee :)

 

[ladee]

No need to feel anything except supported.... you are supported on this.... so, let us know.... lots of hugs...