Relationship That Macho Kind Of Girl

[I'll make tea]

I just made a decision... which is: spend much less time worrying + analyzing hubby...

I used to be a macho, tomboy kind of girl and think inside I still am. My decision is like this: Hubby is afraid of crowds, I will accept the fact and go places without him and may be one day he won't be stressed any more and come with me and our boy.

+ I will try not to obsess about little things like hubby saying something I do not like, hubby being a little OCD and so on.

 

[Never Give Up]

I find myself over analyzing my relationship and feelings as a supporter. I ended up making our situation much worse by having my insecurities and anxiety show when it was not necessary.

I think if you focus on your self first...the hubby will see your behavior pattern change and may conform your actions.

 

[arfie]

Retired lady engineer here, married to a poet who subscribes to the biblical definition of "husband" as "to care for. To tend" Way back when "husband" and "engineer" were both verbs. What do you think, my strong friend? Will we ever get past assigning gender to personality traits? Perhaps we can talk about it over that cup of tea you are making... It be a meaty subject...

 

[Never Give Up]

If he uses a biblical approach. Two shall become One. It is a covenant that is an equal. If he thinks outside the box...it would be his view and definition that would work for his satisfaction. Just saying.