The Second Trauma; What Trauma Can Do.

[Iloz]

Eceki was not saying that posting here is what will make you unsafe and what he/she was saying is that posting here is not enough to make you safe. He/she can correct me if I am wrong.

What was meant is that you need to take real action in real time time to protect yourself. Starting with your t is a good start point. Here is anonymous and there are many such sites so you would be extremely unlucky for anyone to recognise you here. Don't cut off your support. Do get realtime help.

 

[Pefepu]

Haha I realized that too right after I wrote my response so now I feel I must respond.

I have been extremely "unlucky" in my circumstances regarding all of this. Just because something is rare... it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I have experienced this firsthand and maybe that's why I feel more caution than most. I was told years ago that the current situation I'm in is highly "unusual" and "unlikely," but again, just because something is unlikely... it doesn't mean it CAN'T happen. It means it sometimes happens, and it is happening for me, personally. What can I say, I've lived a rare life, rare things happen to me... so what's rare to others doesn't feel so rare or unlikely to me, personally, not anymore. The possibility seems very real to me that I could be recognized. I will write more when things are safer(in realtime, as you put it). I can safely say, though, that I feel like I've come out of the darkness a little... I'm feeling better. Cheers!

 

[Dideli]

Have you been able to confirm that it's him? Is it possible that it's not him?