Thanks KP, Sorry for the mispost.
This isn't going to be fun since my mom and I are in odds. When gran died, who I was also close to, mom refused to let me come home to say goodbye. Dad..he is a special man. Korean War Vet. Lost two platoons over there. One by a sniper and the other by some poisoned saki. He was injured by some bushwackers who jumped up and down on his back. He was in a coma for awhile. He is a good man. I don't want him suffering. He has seen and gone through enough.