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[junglegirl]

@ anthony this thread is making me rethink my stance on bpd lol

 

[PandaBear12212]

I have no problem confirming my exact address. Same location, same campus, but NOT the same computers, not the same dorm rooms. My friend is a computer specialist, I know how they look similar.

 

[anthony]

Just because I post stuff that you dont agree with doesn't give you the right to delete my account anthony.

Actually, yes I can. Your entire posted content is a lie and complete nonsense against another person. This is called libel, as you have written it.

 

[anthony]

Banned for one month. This is complete nonsense that is wasting members time from those who really need help for real problems.

 

[mytai]

And this should be a lesson for all members. If you don't want to be identified then don't post online, especially with your own picture and so much identifying information.

I've personally questioned the amount of details I've posted here sometimes, it's a learning experience. I frequently google my name to see what shows up. If I don't like what is available to others I make changes, either by deleting accounts or changing information to something generic. We are ultimately responsible for what is on the internet about ourselves.

 

[mytai]

I also find it ironic that the poster of this thread is so concerned about her right to privacy on the internet, but threw around first names of people in her life without their consent. If you are so concerned about your privacy why would you throw out real names to make it easier for someone to identify you in real life? That doesn't make any sense.

When you signed up on this website you agreed to the terms. Some of which (please correct me if I'm wrong) are that nothing will be removed from this website or pulled down. Once you wait until the option to edit is gone it's on here permanently unless otherwise decided by the site owners. Which they clearly state they won't remove information.

 

[broken brain]

It is very clear that she made some major errors in judgment, but I feel sad for her. She felt threatened and embarrassed (yes, because of her own actions) and came here to find support. I don't know. This was hard to read while thinking about her state of mind. This is quite a lesson in public/private boundaries.

 

[madmax]

Panda.....grow up.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

Hopefully she'll be OK when she comes back. I know she's had major memory issues, and I have a feeling that is playing into all of this as well. I kind of have a hunch as to what is going on based on all those other sites she is a member of, but will leave it as....it is more than just PTSD that she is dealing with. I hope she gets the help that she needs.

 

[TimeToHeal]

I have really tried to refrain from commenting on this thread, however, something about it has bothered me from the get go.

The entire content/subject of this thread is/was what I would consider a personal matter, and one that I feel never should have been brought to or involved this forum. If the OP had an issue with a friend or acquaintance accessing and reading things she had posted here, she should have dealt with it directly with that friend. It really had/has nothing to do with the topic of PTSD. The fact that she brought it here, publicly bashed someone from her personal life, thus luring or manipulating them directly onto this site, actually served to further corrupt the integrity of the forum - the very thing she claimed to be so concerned about to start with!

I find the entire thing to be quite manipulating and attention seeking. Yes, she is obviously unwell and in some serious need of help/treatment, which I sincerely hope she is able to get.

One last thing - I find it absolutely ludicrous that someone with the exact same username on different online sites (something very quickly and easily confirmed) would lie and say this is the only site they use said username. Then, when they are called out on it, they conveniently just "forgot," they'd used it elsewhere because they have major "memory problems." (We're not talking 'Oh yeah, I did use it on another site,' we're talking 10-20 separate sites - easy). Again, I see it as playing the "poor me" card for attention seeking purposes.

PandaBear12212, wherever you are, please find yourself a competent therapist and begin to address your issues while you're still so young.

That's all I've got.....

 

[Hashi]

I've also been very bothered reading this thread. What I see is not so much lying as more an inability - for whatever reason - to be consistent.

@PandaBear, I suspect there are issues that you can't help here. At the same time, it's an impossible "discussion" for the forum because people are trying to understand, reason and help - and I think there's no possibility for that in this thread. It's beyond the scope of forum members to support you when you're not able to listen to or focus on what's being said. I don't think posting like this can benefit you or other members.

I know from a previous post that you didn't see much hope for yourself through therapy/therapists. I don't know where you are with that right now. I hope it'll be possible for you to give it another try and work through how you've experienced this, with a good therapist experienced in PTSD and the dissociation spectrum. I think this thread could be of benefit if you felt able to show it. I'm really hoping you can find good help and support, because that can make so much difference.

 

[anthony]

I kind of have a hunch as to what is going on based on all those other sites she is a member of

So do I... I've looked, and it screams personality disorder in big loud letters. Oh wait... they call it DID now, don't they!