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PandaBear12212 - Take some deep breaths. Take it one step at a time and keep changing your info. You are not in immediate danger right now, but PTSD might be kicking in to make it feel harder to think. There is no real reason to rush.
Even if you do change everything, it's still all cached. What's done is done. Your info is out there, but I don't see any signs of major danger, but a loss of privacy which is humiliating, but you chose it when you created everything - and act you say you do remember. People post on various public sites and link them to myPTSD, another public site, with their real pictures, when they want to publically link their real identity with their battle with PTSD. You know the risk now.
It doesn't really matter that much if you used his computer or not. One thing is very clear, your info is public without ever having used his computer.
Instead of arguing with one person who has read your stuff (and guarantee you that he is not the only member of the public who has) about things that can't be changed, it might be a more effective use of your brain space to change the things you can. Like your avatar now here on this site. Or change your acceptance of the risks of posting publically online.
All the time you are using to argue with him could be used to actually change your actions online and take down your personally identifying info that is putting you in a position of having to deal with this at a very high rate.
If he really is a creep, then ignore his comments and don't engage him. Arguing with creeps just makes us go down to their level. You can click on his profile and choose ignore.
You really do have choices in all of this, regardless of his actions.
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Josephraynor - It's clear by her first post that she very upset and it's probably not going to be effective to just argue with her right now. Some time for both of you to cool off might make this a more productive conversation between you two.