Trust Issues, Emotional Outbursts And Past Trauma

[monkeybutton]

thanks guys, this is all very helpful and supportive. thank you :)

 

[Gs172003]

Honey any amount of going past your boundaries is abuse. Getting upset when you weren't able? Abuse. Begging til you gave in? Abuse. Were you with my freaking ex husband? One thing I've never said in public until just now. My ex would yell at me when my cycle would start. What would you call that?

 

[Gs172003]

Dammit now I'm just pissed

 

[Casey_03]

@missy meier If I understood correctly, she said it was her ex who didn't respect boundaries, not the current guy who the post is about

 

[Gs172003]

I know. I guess this thread is a trigger for me. I don't like the guys on drugs in her house, I don't like her boyfriend making excuses and I don't like what her ex did, and I don't like that she's justifying what he did by saying it was her fault. Maybe because I'm doing the same damn thing.