Two Days Ago....

[EloiseLandau]

My male friend was saying he had nothing, everything was sh*t, and I even stole his dreams when I sent a text message one night and it woke him up. (I thought his phone was plugged in, in the kitchen like it usually was). He refused to talk to me the next day at all. Now he's sending lovey-dovey friend messages (by text). I'm the one with the CPTSD and I backed off, gave him space... but now he's wanting back into my space rightnowthisverymomentplease. I think... I'm going to go take a bath. And go to bed early. ;) I deserve a little time too, no, after flashbacks and pain and tears?

 

[Deleted member 12723]

It is a shame that happened. I have to wonder about a person who would quit speaking to you over a phone text. Mabe take a long break from this guy. You deserve some happiness and some normal things in your relationships. Food for thought.

 

[EloiseLandau]

He's been under a lot of stress in general and the text just tipped him over because he thought it was an emergency. How he reacts is not something I can control. He just went on and on about how his life was sh*t and nothing was the way it was supposed to be, and angry words upon angry words... anyway, the bath was most refreshing.