So I've been approached several times in the past couple weeks by people insisting on talking about politics with me. Three out of four of those times were with people who know me and know that I voted for President Trump. The last person was a stranger who I believe thought I "looked progressive" and had initiated a conversation with me about refugees and racism. When he discovered that I used to tutor refugees and had a lot of gay friends, I believe he mistook me as being on "his side." I only gave him non committal answers to his political talk because I don't talk about sensitive things with strangers, especially when I'm out with my child. The more non committal I was, the harder he pushed his points. I suppose he realized he miscategorized me when I did not "disavow." It made me really uncomfortable.
My uncle called me up and was telling me how exasperated he was about people not seeing through the president and his cabinet. He was just trying to "understand" it. He said he kept discussing it with people and it kept frustrating him. I tried to explain to him why *I* voted for the president, but this didn't seem to help. I suggested he read one of the president's books. He flew off the handle at this. I asked him if he was open to learning things that challenged what he already "knew" and he admitted he was not. I realized then that my uncle had been harassing people in an attempt to get them to change their minds. He was not interested in "understanding" anything, despite what he initially said. And this is what other people are trying to do to ME. I can't tell you how mad this made me.
As a lifelong atheist/Odinist who has happily lived among Christians, I have gotten used to avoiding sensitive topics, respecting others and having them respect me. This is America, where multiculturalism, freedom of belief, and freedom of expression are our fundamental tenets. It makes me sick the way that people have been behaving. I have been avoiding open support of our president, the flag, and our country in an attempt to not be bullied, but I'm not doing that any longer. I am a conceal carry permit holder, I have had multiple self defense classes, and I know how to defend myself. I have two undergraduate degrees and a graduate degree. I worked in fast food, factories, and then worked my way up to a managerial white collar job before I retired. I never used drugs, rarely drank, never used welfare once I was an adult and it was my choice. I believe in capitalism, secularism, and nationalism. I am done playing ignorant. No one is going to get me into these stupid political discussions any longer.