Waiting For Taylan

[Tim &Bailey]

Seren is fine I have to help her a lot since she had a cesarian and her tubes tide at the same time she ain't real mobile. I allready do the majority of the cooking but now I get the laundry and dishes to. Not to mention I have to shower her so she don't slip or to wash the areas she can't bend to get. So my life just got ten times more busy. I wouldn't change it for the world. Taylan is a very easy going boy he only fusses if he is hungry and when he is getting his butt changed. He just don't like the cold baby wipes. He has been a blessing but I still am unsure of my ability to bond. The meds I'm on make me so emotionless but I'm giving it one hell of a go. I sleep by Seren and Taylan every night because she can't get up the stairs to our bedroom so I can get him for her if he wakes. Getting tired of the livingroom but I will continue as long as it takes. My frog went to stay at his grandparents for a few days and man do I miss him but I wouldn't be able to give him the attention he deserves while tending Seren and Taylan. Everything else is going well as soon as it settles down I will get back to getting my meds adjusted with a week away at the hospital. Chat later.

I just want to say Thank You for stepping up and taking care of all of that while the little lady is down and out. Things need done guys like us just do it.I know we dont hear thanks enough because we are so programmed to get it done. Yes its busy but it'll all be worth it, trust me as you watch them grow.
Never worry about the bonding, I felt the same way. I'll say this their first smile, laugh, steps and saying Dad have a way of cutting through the Fog of meds.
Enjoy my Brother u deserve to be happy. In the end remember they r what we were fighting for. So don't worry pick em up when he's smilin and give em a big Hug and a kiss. they grow way to fast! Take care God bless you and your wonderful family. These are happy times.

Tim & Bailey

 

[willis williams]

Thanks T&B I am doing as well as I can I got my frog back yesterday and am having a blast he really loves his little brother. I will step up know mater what but it is a major challenge when your meds haven't been in the theraputic level in three months. Sometimes just want to run. But I won't cause your right they are what I faught for.

 

[Jimmy1]

Awesome news mate. I got that email from Seren and am glad. I am glad Frog loves his brother too. Sometimes it can be a challenge. At least Taylan will grow up with an awesome dad and a big brother.

 

[reddevil1111]

It is a great feeling to be a father. Congratulations ! He looks like he will make a fine man someday. Big, strong and thoughtful. My only advise as a dad? change every diaper you can for the first year. Run dont walk! Rush to change them now. you are building up stock. After he starts on solid food, taper it off a lot. The wife might not even notice and you did the easy diapers. Those food filled ones are the worst! Yuck!
Seriously? You did good! he is a very happy looking healthy boy- what more could you want?!

 

[willis williams]

Thanks for the advice I figured that one out on the last one he is 23 months and is just figuring out the potty training. He is a very easy going baby so far he sucks titty shits and sleeps. So far so good.

 

[reddevil1111]

I had issues with the titties. those are MINE!
A year for both kids. I felt deprived.