What Can I Do?

[Bloomy]

I moved away from my city for some years beacause of this. But find it hard to live on country side. Im a city girl. Oslo is the only city in Noway. So I tried to stay in my parts of the town. It has worked. Until now :banghead::banghead::banghead::bawling::bawling::bawling:

 

[NoWhereKnowWhere]

I'm so sorry that is so shit. I moved so I wouldn't see my 'it' it's the best decision I ever made. It's bullshit that you have to suffer like this while it walks around.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I'm so sorry, Bloomy. That must be horrible. I get triggered even by guys who just resemble my abusers....

Yes, that happens to me all the time, people that resemble abusers can trigger me too. And yes, I did have to live with a stalker at a job. It never gets easier. And no, moving to another country will do nothing when it comes to stalkers. At least not into a location where you would live with a visible street address, phone and internet connection.

If a stalker proves that he or she is willing to travel to destinations where you will go to, then you have to think about remote locations. Off the grid, that is the only way to get away from such loosers.
Which is fine by me, I embrace such freedoms, would not be a loss for me, but rather a gain.

And do not ever talk to anyone about such plans, because stalkers have huge social nets, since they are trying to get close to you whichever way possible, via using other people that are dumb enough to believe their lies.