What Did You Do For You Today???

[Deleted member 12723]

Had a 3 hour coffee break with my lovely daughter. We sat outside in the warm shade and drank our drinks. We talked about so many things. She confided in me and I confided in here. We are brainstorming. It was so lovely to spend so much time with her. When she dropped me off she installed my anti virus kit. It is all done now. She helps me so much.

She is having struggles in her marriage. I offered her to come here in the middle of the night if he gets carried away. She has the divorce papers already filled out. She is seeing a therapist. I am very proud of her. She is amazing. My heart and prayers are with her and the lovely grandchilren. I am sorry she is in so much pain. But she says she will be ok. That is so strange because this is what I tell myself. It was a lovely intimate time together. We are very close. She said if he has to relocate she won;t be going with him. He is being very controlling and going onto porn sites on the computer.

They had seperated a whiles back over this sort of thine. I am hoping for the best possible outcome. My heart is so sad that she has to go through this experience. She will be ok. As long as he does not go psycho on her. My big fear. He has not yet.

 

[Loveneverfails]

I got scolded by my mother last night for not doing things for my own enjoyment enough. She says I spend too much time working on my book and raising my kids and not enough on relaxing and that's why I get sick a lot. I wrote her off at first but now I think she's at least partially right. I only occasionally do things with the intention of treating myself.

So I spoiled myself a bit watching family kid rated movies yesterday, and it really did help me relax. I don't usually watch those because I prefer action packed, martial arts, epic type of movies. It was nice to just sit and feel a story more than an adrenaline rush...which I obviously don't need more of. Today I'm sitting listening to cello music. Something about classical music always makes me smile and feel good.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I took anxiety meds. I drove myself to go and get a mocha frappe. I am online and watching movies I recorded on the dvr. It is a beautiful day. My husband is doing the dusting. It gives him something to do and he does such a good job. Yeah.

 

[Let It Be]

Replacing batteries!

First, it was the smoke alarm that started beeping, it needed a new battery.

I then was on the phone and it started to beep, it needed a new battery. It's cheaper to buy a new phone and so off to W where after 3 trips, I still didn't find one I liked.

I went to the other W store and found some I liked, on clearance! She said that they probably wouldn't get any more in, because it seems that a telephone will soon be a thing of the past.
So one day, I will probably say, I remember when...!

Then I get on my bathroom scale, and it displays - low, so off to get another battery.

 

[p-no]

Sent my boss an e-mail saying I needed a break tomorrow and that today already all colleagues noticed something was wrong with me and what is. Staying home tomorrow. I wouldn't cope with going all week after such a weekend.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

My husband is doing the vacumning which gives me an allergic attack. I took pills for it. We have the air conditioner on as it is beginning to get hot. I am thankful he can clean the house for me. I am very gratrful.

 

[Froggie]

Shared my mixed feelings (cancer / PTSD) with a forum friend in chat room ... OHHHHHH did really good for me ... thanks (((KP)))

 

[Philippa]

Asked for a recommendation for a good therapist to someone I believe is a very good therapist and has had a lot of experience with trauma.

 

[intothelight]

Ordered the next three books for a series I am reading.

 

[Chincho]

I slept in

 

[goingonhope]

Enjoyed lots of yard and garden work. Mowed the lawn and traveled out earlier this evening.

 

[Meadowsweet]

I got a sponsorship form through the door this morning, for a sponsored walk I put down for ages ago. My head hasn't been in the right place this week, but the letter spurred me on and I walked to the top of the highest peak near my home.