Hmmm, I do think I like "not normal". I could settle on that one. All the other conditions that Solara mentioned can fit there too, so it's not being superiorist.
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I don't think that wishing to focus on something being caused by external forces is elitist though... why compare ptsd to just those conditions, why compare it to anything.
Some of the trouble I've had with "mentally ill" also stems from the minimization/denial of the actual *events* that caused my ptsd in the first place, which is really common for folks. The stigma present with "mental illness" does not only give ptsd sufferers the troubles associated with peoples' attitudes toward them (which is a form of prejudice, that no one should have to face), but it often is related to people *not believing us*... the trauma didn't really exist, wasn't very bad, that sort of thing...
If we are not being believed about the trauma, it both often damages us in an ongoing way, can prevent proper treatment, but also can prevent abusers from being held accountable or stopped from doing further harm.
We're often in the position of having to depend on "normal" people to believe us, for our safety... I think that's part of why my brain decided not to let emotions/experiences stay in consciousness that would have made no sense to "normal" people.
(e.g. "that woman is just crazy and unstable, don't listen to her -- after all she cries too much, won't go out at night, she even heard voices once..., that fine citizen living next to her would never assault anyone...")
So, I think I actually feel unsafe for two main reasons when I sense stigma coming up... the stigma and prejudice that cause many problems on their own that no one should have to suffer, plus possible additional trauma/violence issues that happen when our community does not believe or help protect us due to the stigma, but we have a connection to a perpetrator that we need to break.