• We are a multilingual website again. Read the notice about this.
  • Understand AI use at MyPTSD: all AI use is explained in our AI help page. AI use is by choice here. It exists if you want it, but does nothing unless you choose to use it.

Relationship What Is Best Way To Tell A Carer?

Status
Not open for further replies.
Thank you, May. You are a compassionate carer!! I wonder if men are more likely are less likely to hear a sufferer talk. My last "carer" always blew up over it. So i had to can it 24/7. We are still friends, but the kind that never see each other and just write amusing emails once a month. Truly, in my heart, this may sound cruel, but that person does not even deserve that.

He was not nice at all. Not outright mean or anything, but cold, rude, condescening to me and even family, and anyone else. He hated the world because he had Aspergers's. It was not the reason for him meanness.....a lot of people with Aspergers are exquisitly sensitive, but he was bitter, refused help, was imprisoned in his head and sought to imprison me in his head, too.

Once I tried to talk to him about the way he handled me and he went way off, staring at me, confronting me, leaning in, blaming me.......Eeck!!Even thinking about it!!!:eek:
 
(((hugs))) for you Okradlak, and Thank You!! I think it is wonderful you are here. There are such great men carers on here and even guy sufferers who seem to just have 'awareness' which even for what seems so little that I've been through I am continuously inspired that there is greatness out there AND healing. Even for you, it may just be figuring out how high you want to set your walls. I always think of it as 'the one who truly wants to climb over into my world is the one that will also be worth fighting for'. You deserve greatness!!! Even if it means you have to be "a little cruel" to free up that part of your energy to rebuild it for someone worth it ;)
 
Status
Not open for further replies.

Donation drives

2026 Donation Goal

Goal
$1,800.00
Earned
$980.00
This donation drive ends in
0 hours, 0 minutes, 0 seconds
  54.4%

Trending content

Featured content

Back
Top Bottom