My son has been being abused for 4 years. Everyone has spoken to my mom about the motherf*cking basics of making time go easier when he's here, and it's like talking to a brick wall.
- Don't yell at him when he's asleep, half asleep, or already upset. Period.
- Don't move his stuff around / take his things without asking / let him have something that's his & his alone.
- Don't eat his food
Does she listen? Of course not.
2 weeks left in school, he was up until 330am with panic attacks and nightmares and asthma attacks, and she's yelling at him at 6am. Fortunately, I got her to stop before he woke up, and then miracle of miracles a neighbors cat came to visit an hour later and he had a good morning woken up by a friendly & totally distracting kitty... Was headed for the shower, getting his clothes, it was a really really good morning...and what does she f*cking do??? Of course. Yells at him & guilts him that he's going to be late & all the doom&destruction that will cause, motherf*cking guilt trip as full volume :banghead: so instead of maybe being 20 minutes late to school, 4 hours later, he's almost calmed down enough to go take a shower and get dressed.
School is the most important thing... No. Actually. It's the LEAST important thing in this entire f*cked up situation. Least. Not most.
Well he's not being abused NOW... Yes. He is. Every. Single. Week. At least 6mo a year. For four motherf*cking years.That he has time off from being abused? Doesn't make the effects of it magically vanish. :mad:
I'm just so furious with her right now. Here's this kid doing everything is his f*cking power to try and keep himself in check, while she exerts the same kind of control a toddler does. None. Who is the f*cking grown up in this goddamn occasion???