@Heather Is it possible to request for the meetings with the alleged social worker, to be recorded?
I'd be wanting a chat with her supervisor as well. To perhaps have her reminded that the job she's being paid to do, involves social work.
That if I'd wanted legal advice, I'd hire a lawyer. Not a social worker.
That I'd rather rather stick my fingers into my ears and scream till I was hoarse, than hear her personal opinion of the current weather, let alone of my child.
That unless she can conduct herself in a professional way, I would like a replacement by someone who can.
If they attempt to argue, ask them what they would do, if they were in a similar situation. If they would accept a second rate social worker to represent their child?
See what they say to that.
Anyone else remember when the whole reason people had to go to post secondary schools to work in these fields, was to prevent the grossly incompetent from getting jobs like these?