I was validated by a neighbor down the street about the neighbor lady who lives next door to me. She stopped to talk because everyone has noticed that something is going on next door, not seeing her husband, etc.
Anyway, this neighbor talked about how my neighbor lady has treated her which is the same way, she has with me. If the neighbor lady would see me, she would immediately turn her back to me, look up into the sky or whatever, so she would not have to wave at me.
Just grateful and happy to realize that this lady's behavior affects others too, and that it was not just me. Like this neighbor said, what did I do to her, for her to act this way towards me. I have said the same thing to myself.
Time will tell about what she will do, when she sees me again, etc. I'm just happy that I was able to share with this neighbor how I have been feeling, nice to be validated, which I have needed.
