What Makes You Angry Today?

[holdenmonty]

that is a great idea Lurch that way I can piss them off for once.

 

[Friday]

I'm just pissed at myself. Too many reasons to list. Started to, and that just got depressing. Already spent the day sad as f*ck, I'll take the anger, thanks. At least if I'm mad at myself there's something I can do about it.

 

[dutchiedelta]

Pissed off cos people don't seem to learn from the past.

 

[dutchiedelta]

Remember the crazy thread about people wanting to travel to warzones?
Same group, different topic.
Bloke wants to fly with his almost 3 year old. Complains the kid is a nuisance and what medication or sleepingpills do others use to drug the kid?

I'm pissed off with myself for being in a group with such nutters.

Big shot photo's of himself posing in front of a tank. Mighty warrior, big man, stupid kid, whine whine.
The shit posted his address to provoke me sending childcare services.

Okay I did the only sane thing and left that travel group.
Less angry with self now.

 

[holdenmonty]

I'm with you there dutchie, that dad is a lame ass excuse for a dad...

 

[dutchiedelta]

Holden, it goes against me, my training and my beliefs to turn away. But here, there was nothing else to do.
I do feel sorry for his family and kids but staying there would have driven me bonkers.

 

[dirtdobber]

I made it back here. Guess it was close to a year or more. After have 3 deaths in 2 years, my Mom, wife, and a daughter it gave me a over load. I am happy to announce that I had no back sliding. It was hard though.
All this winning I hear is just too much. They really haven't experienced. Won't get a job but have no problem asking for help. They are complete cowards won't ask me directly, they have to use their other family members. If I don't help I am accused of only caring for my blood family. Hell they would pay me I could gt a new bike. But no that is just too hard to do for them. Now I am finding out that I am losing my hearing. Oh boy, here we go again. There so much noise in my head and hearing I have to focus hard to understand what anyone is saying. I have had ringing since 3/09/69 but now the ringing is in both ears and another sound that I am not able to describe. I don't remember being healthy like others. I was 19 when I was blown up.

 

[holdenmonty]

So my supervisor is making me angry lately... Yesterday about half an hour before we go home for the day she comes over to me and asks me how much I'm getting in my tax refund. Which I assume is a simple question because other co workers have asked the question and have congratulated me. But anyway the last couple months we have been financially struggling a little bit but are getting back on the right track and with our income tax refund we will get 100% caught up and be able to pay a little extra on some bills and are looking at possibly moving off base. But anyway she starts telling me what I should and shouldn't spend my tax refund check on and when I attempted to explain to her that my wife and I have already discussed what we are going to spend it on and that we are going to create an emergency fund in our savings with some of it. She talked over me and just continued on basically telling me how I need to spend my money. It was the first time in quite a while that I actually felt like harming somebody. But I have forgotten to take my meds two out of the last four days so it makes me wonder if it's just the extent of her disrespect that has me angry or if me missing a couple days of my meds might be making my anger worse. I'm considering going over to mental health and telling them that I feel like hitting my supervisor and that the thoughts haven't stopped since she pissed me off yesterday.

 

[Friday]

How does the Air Force feel about going blouses off with your superiors?

 

[holdenmonty]

It is something that use to happen but isn't suppose to happen if it still happens. I remember I had a supervisor that when we had our feedback sessions we would take our blouses off and said alright lets get ride of rank and have an honest feedback session where you can give me honest feedback but it has to be constructive and the same way for me that the feedback he gave me was honest but had to be constructive I couldn't say that he sucked and leave it at that. Through talking to her about it this morning I found out that she has a promotion test date next Tuesday and her husband is TDY (temporary duty yonder) and has to take care of their five kids at home by herself until he gets back so she's a bit stressed and inadvertently directed some of her stress towards my direction. So there was a victory for staying level headed and thinking about what and how I'm going to say something before I speak.

 

[dirtdobber]

I have had so many folks tell me how to take care of my money. I simply tell them I earned it-whether it is tax refund or what ever- and I am a adult so I can very well make my own decisions. If they want to talk over me I just listen until they slow down then I inform them I or we will make our own decisions. If they continue I simply ask who left you in charge? They forgot to tell you I don't give a da*mn what you think.
you can't fix stupid.
There always these tough guys/gals that knows everything. Best thing I can do is just walk away from them. When I walk away everyone knows not to follow me because they all know I am not putting up with their crap.

 

[holdenmonty]

That is a great idea dirtdobber It's not like she can make me spend my money how I want to it is after all my money and I am a grown ass adult