When Do You Know It's Time To Leave?

[Befok]

It seems like most people fit in just fine here

There's an old saying; Never judge you're insides, by someone else's outsides.

 

[Zedet]

Like maybe I'm in the wrong place.

I think we all feel like at some point. Not just here but most places.

What I was getting at is if you can name what you feel you aren't getting here or name why you feel you don't fit. I think you can really take that apart and see that it you really do get that from here or that maybe you need some self reflection.

Or maybe you need to be more clear about your needs. Ask for what you need.

But, I think the closer you look, the more you'll see that you do fit in here and that we are all odd apples. That the "I don't fit" is negitive untrue self talk that neess to be challenged.

 

[Nacu]

uguna you're not alone with this feeling, and I think there is maybe a group of people on here that are friends and it can feel a bit exclusive.
I had the experience quite s few times of replying on someone's thread and seeing everyone else acknowledged but me, or making my own thread and getting no or only one reply.
That kind of thing exacerbates my symptoms! I usually just read now and not too often
But I also have learned online is not much different to real life, people will be people - but I was hoping online was different!!
It's a really good forum if you can bracket that kind of stuff out.

 

[Osup]

That still happens to me and I have been here a long time and I just think no one connected with my post. I usually comment on posts a lot, so it isn't like I am part of a group, I just have a lot of opinions, lol.

 

[Uguna]

Thank you all